We've all been there, we've all had the same challenge where we are pushed a little harder than most HB's push us.
That's right, the "too confident",HB.

She takes your negs like compliments, and your compliments like negs. Nothing blows her frame, she has the permanent stand off-ish personality.

But there is one similarity about every over confident person out there, 9 out of 10 overly confident people hold the same familiar frame, and when its pointed out to them, it's mind blowing because it's so true.

This is a good cold reading routine for a confident person/HB. It applies generally to a lot of people which most cold reads are but most HB's and people don't know it. To them it's like you just opened up their most vulnerable emotions. In which case,if addressed in a very nonchalant but inspiring way, it goes a long way.

So when faced with an over confident HB when you are able to start C1(connection making) this is a great routine to run to gain rapport and spark a curiosity in the HB.

"
I noticed this, you're a very confident person,
and you know you are too, it's a good mind frame to have.
It's hard to always hold that frame,
It will break sometimes
and since it was up for so long
and since it was so tough to hold that.
it comes down hard.
Real hard.
I'm the same way
You and I are very alike in that way
So I know how it is when you try so hard.
But cant hold that frame
and since you cant hold it, it makes it that much worse.
So it comes down even more, way harder.
Then you get put down, and all upset.
and it takes some time to get your mind frame back up to where it was,
But it always gets back.
I can tell your the type
To invest a lot into people
Way more than most other people you associate with.
You're smart about it though
You dont fully invest to everyone
You're very particular
In who exactly you choose to fully invest to.
and when you do.
You invest so much.
The only ones who can break you
Are the ones you've invested yourself into
fully invested.
Being so confident is good, and then it's bad, but I like that.
"
It's a good cold read, then you can routine out of it, start building rapport in another way. and I guarantee while you do, she'll be thinking about what you just said, and if it hits home enough, she'll be thinking about it all week.

Tell me what you guys think?
-Shawoo

This is really good my friend. I went to a bbq with couple of people a week ago, and I met this very confident attention seeking girl. I was just sitting there and thinking there must be a way of shutting her down and taking control over the conversation (showing social confidence), but I couldn't think of anything and now I discovered this and this is really good. The think I'm not sure about is when to use it, because she barely leaves the crowd and I'm not sure if its a good idea of doing it in front of everyone (correct me if I'm wrong).

Definitely only meant for one on one. You need to first go through A1-A3 then once you isolate her and Start C1 you can do this. But since you're not necessarily sarging her within an hour time frame of just meeting her I suggest you start off by being a cocky funny friend. You need to stay within the boundaries of sexual attraction rather than drifting too far and being friend zoned. So in order to do that you need to approach her and dhv, be funny, be cool, make you the prize. not her. Then once you can get her with a 1 to 1 situation, that becomes C1 in which case you can build in to you "reading" her by using a ESP gambit, or simply telling her you read people. Girls are instantly curious and a spark is made when you present yourself as someone who can read them emotionally and psychologically. So an example of 1 on 1 time would be you simply inviting her over to your house to hang out. its the best way. But make sure you have something to keep her busy at first, because you need to display yourself as coming off as non needy, not having her there to get wit her. From her perspective you're just interestings and fun to be around. which eventually triggers natural attraction. then the comfort building starts then the seducing. Thats exactly what you need to do. its as simple as "hey, come over tomorrow and lets chill.." If your approach is anything but a catastrophe, she won't say no.