I am new to these forums

Backstory:

I met her on vacation about 6 months ago and we hit it off so well that we continued a LDR after the vacation ended. I met her on a cruise for a week and ended up ditching my friends on this cruise and spent most of the time with her. We had a one night stand the first night and I ended up sleeping with her 4 nights out of the 7 on the cruise. Needless to say my buddies were not too pleased that I spent most of my time with her, but it was instant attraction. Normally this doesnt happen to me on vacation but we both were very attracted to each other.

Over the last 2 months, however, I got a bit too needy and clingy. I would call her often and I felt a little bit insecure because she was living far away from me and she is very attractive. When she would go out to bars in her area she would attract attention from almost every guy she walked by.

I blew the relationship and feel that she was pulling away from me at the end of it.

I received a facebook message October 18th saying that she just wanted to be friends for the moment and she had mixed feelings about continuing to date me. I was very upset at receiving this message. I was downtrodden for days.

BUT, I didn't act desperate and run after her. 3 days after I received that message I sent her a text saying I did not want to be friends with her and that we should both say "goodbye to each other and go our separate ways".

I kept NC for the last 4 weeks. I did not call her, text her, or send her any emails and messages. I even got her attention by blocking her on facebook. I knew she recognized that I was blocking her because she kept popping up under the top 10 most active friends that I had on facebook. I knew she was viewing my facebook page.

Fast forward to 2 hours ago. I received this facebook message (November 26th):



"Hi [Redacted],

Hope you don't completely hate me after what has happened recently. I am in [Redacted] and went sightseeing today and passed through [Redacted] and I thought of you. Anyways, Happy Thanksgiving. Hope it was great.

Sincerely,

[Her Name]


I have not responded to her yet. Its been 2 weeks and she has been viewing my facebook page alot. What do I do? How should I respond to her? Should I respond at all? What should I say?



Thanks
Prismpunk

I know I pretty much fucked up lol. Right now its a LDR. Any advice. Should I not talk to her again or respond to that message?