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PostPosted: Wed Sep 14, 2011 3:50 pm 
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I been dating this girl for awhile now and we gone on like three dates. I do my best to build rapport and comfort as I can. Though she doesn't seem to get my jokes or punch lines to stories, while other people I know do. She does work quite a bit and honestly Idk what her hobbies are minus working out at the gym. I wonder if she puts off this image of "very busy" when in fact she probably is not,...so she doesn't seem boring?
So I have to wonder, is she not that socialize? When we text I get more information out of her then in person. I almost feel like a natural flow in talking face to face is like a job interview or like I'm talking to a wall. Sure she will chime in when I ask a question, but its a brief answer and few details. Someone out there has to of had a similar situation...how did you handle this?
I don't want to push so hard that she will just say to Hell with this, but let's be honest, what's a relationship if its one sided. I've almost given up trying, cas some ppl are just too far broken. Or maybe I'm on a total wrong read


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I been dating this girl for awhile now and we gone on like three dates. I do my best to build rapport and comfort as I can. Though she doesn't seem to get my jokes or punch lines to stories, while other people I know do. She does work quite a bit and honestly Idk what her hobbies are minus working out at the gym. I wonder if she puts off this image of "very busy" when in fact she probably is not,...so she doesn't seem boring?
So I have to wonder, is she not that socialize? When we text I get more information out of her then in person. I almost feel like a natural flow in talking face to face is like a job interview or like I'm talking to a wall. Sure she will chime in when I ask a question, but its a brief answer and few details. Someone out there has to of had a similar situation...how did you handle this?
I don't want to push so hard that she will just say to Hell with this, but let's be honest, what's a relationship if its one sided. I've almost given up trying, cas some ppl are just too far broken. Or maybe I'm on a total wrong read
How far have you gotten with her? Does she show interest, other than not talking much?

It may be that she's stuck in her own head too much. Really focus on her, talk a little more slowly and give her a little more time to process the things you say. When you have to, be ready to ramble a little bit, it'll fill the silence.


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