Hi guys,

Met this HB9 a couple weeks ago. Ran into her in a club, went talking to her because I recognised her from when I was younger. So we knew eachother when we were 15 (now we're 21). Turns out she's a friend of my sister, they go to class together.

Since then we texted alot, but my sister isn't very keen about it. She told me she doesn't like the idea of us hanging out and I'm afraid she told HB9 the same.

Last weekend I was very drunk and went to a local club, because she was constantly asking for me to come. Went there, went home with her and another girlfriend and I fell asleep at her girlfriends house.

Now she didn't text so often anymore so I texted:

Me: What's up? Did my sister forbid you to text me? (gone pretty AFC here I think...)
HB: Huh? How do you mean?
Me: Dunno.. because I'm not hearing you and my sister was already nagging because we were texting so much..
HB: Your sister didn't mention that to me! In fact she didn't say anything about you!
At this part I knew it was fucked up, so I waited a while to text back... and then she texted again..
HB: I got to say your text was pretty rude though...
Me: Yeah, that you were forbidden to text me was kind off a joke, but I just thought it was strange not hearing anything from you since we were texting a lot the last weeks...
HB: I just hope I didn't give you the wrong impression? Because you think it's weird that you don't hear anything from me for a few days? x
Me: Wrong immage? Not at all! It was just fun texting with you. Who do I have to make fun off otherwise? Everybody I know gets how sarcasm works :p x (The sarcasm is an insider, she's not good at understanding it..)
HB: Yeah, I didn't think you wanted something more and it wasn't my meaning to make it look like that, but because you said it was weird to not hear me a few days. I thought, let's ask it ... :p x

So, I tried to save the situation a little bit, but what bothers me is that she asks me undirectly if I think we have something more going on...Clearly she's not that interested as I thought...

So, what I really wanted to know... Is this a SHIT TEST or not? I thought the text game and stuff the last two weeks were good, I saw her 3 times the last two weeks... the time I met her in the club, one time saw her at a local pub and talked long, and then when I went to this club when I was really drunk.

Now we're not sending that much, I backed off a little. She sent me a text last night at 3.00pm if I was in the same local pub where I saw her, but I was sleeping and didn't text back today...

ANY HELP IS WELCOME... I DON'T KNOW HOW TO TAKE IT FROM HERE...
Normally I would have a day 2 with her next week, but I don't know if I have to go trough with it...

Also I'm an overthinker!

Thanks!

Come on guys, someone must know if this is just a shit test or a rejection.
Even if it can't be really called a rejection, since she came up with it by herself...

Give me some good info please!

From what I've heard,you say that you only texted 2 weeks , with her,and slept at her girlfriend house ... did you even tried to kiss close her during that? If not then why not?You said she was giving you plenty of IoIs , she was texting you heavily, but in a day she began not texting you "that often". I think you blown your chances because :

1: You only texted ,and you didn't try to ask her out, either she found out that youre a pussy by not asking her out,or you have no interest in her.
2: When she asked you to go to the club and you did, you did not kiss close her.
3:You went on and blamed you sister for her lack of interest , she has developped

Like I say , be more cocky , and go for a kiss at least.The biggest mistake you did , was that you did not went for a kiss close.Now go and seek another girl

gabi4play,

Thanks for answering! Always nice when someone takes the time to help!

I should've gone for the kiss close, but like I said, really drunk that night at the club and at her girlfriends house just fell asleep as soon as I got in the bed.

Very stupid move, I know.

Did ask her out twice, during the texting but she's very busy and always had something planned. This week I'm studying for my exams so last week we made the deal to do our 'day 2' in the beginning of September.

I still want the day 2 to go trough but think I messed it up a bit with the texting (see first post). Should I just text her sunday if she's still into a day 2?

104 views and no one can help me out?
Thought this was a PUA forum

Come on guys, I would appreciate some help!

I would let that one go. Sounds like too much work and too much games. Shes not chasing you. You are chasing her. She might be interested but she also displays disinterest. .