basically im texting the girl of my dreams we flirted and she said goonight speak to you soon im confused do i say goodnight and say how is she next day or is that destroying my social value i sent her three text messages and no reply

my question is when she wants to go and says goodbye speak to you soon do i leave it and wait for her to say something next the next day?

And do i say hello to her the next day when she already said speak to u soon?

how do i fix this i like this girl

my newbie advice would be for you to try and end the convo before she does. if she ends up doing it then just say see ya or something funny like "dont dream too much about me! " if it's at night. do not text her every single day. it shows that you're needy. if she sends you a text out of nowhere dont respond for at least 30 min

i do i alway beat her in ending the convo this time she beat me, when i say goodbye to her should i wait for her to text me see how i am

il keep that in mind dont text her a few days

Just chill out and be yourself... I'm not a pick up artist...

Only just started this whole thing... But I already have a cocky funny attitude and I can speak about sex and be comfortable about it... I'm myself and I get dates... so yeah just be yourself say good night...

I just say stuff like... Don't think about me too much or... Keep smiling you look beautiful when you smile etc

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brilliant il do that to now do i wait fo her to send a messge once i say goodnight dont dream of me too much? or do i say that and tell her hello the next day first, eg "college was brilliant today played poker with buddies won 4 times was really good chat later breaks almost done"?

I don't know about that bit yet lol

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once you say "goodnight, dont dream of me too much " wait for her to send a message. give it a few days. if she doesnt text back, after 3-4 days text her out of nowhere. something along the lines of "Saw something that reminded me of you..." then she'll be wondering what you saw. she will likely respond to that, with something like "What did you see?" then say something funny like "a homeless person sleeping :p". make sure you let her know your just joking with a winky face or a :p. when you text her dont make a big deal of worrying what shell say or when shell respond. when i text a girl ill put my phone away and go do something to keep my mind off it

ok cool il see how this goes wish me some luck thanks to all that helped cheers brothers