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I got a girl´s phone number at a loud drunken Gay Parade (very popular here) but hardly had any time to talk to her (she actually tapped me on the shoulder and was kinda drunk). We only echanged like a minute or two during this event. She´s Dutch and i said it would be cool if she could help me out with the language (a bit lame?)
I finally called her back and set up a first "date"...meeting for a beer, to be precise. Then i made it kinda clear i also found her hot.
I am ok with trying game when approaching and knowing that i will only be with the girl a short time and hence it is much easier to be amusing and interesting. But what do i do now that i have to spend hours with this girl? (we are meeting in the late evening) I´m nervous about having to game for hours...It´s not like i can break rapport with her at any time and go back to my friends. Should i put a time limit on the first date? Maybe i should try and escalate fairly fast if the vibe is good. She mentioned to me in our short lone exchange that she is "kinda crazy" and i have had a tendency in the past to be too nice and not escalate or go kino and i think this is the kinda girl who would find that boring. Also if we start making out relatively early, it takes away the problem of having to fill in dead lulls thu out the night and trying to keep saying interesting things keeping her arousal level high all that time.
please advise!
Tease, tease, tease. Ask her to tell you about different things she likes, then over the course of the date playfully poke fun at her while referencing those things. Exaggerate everything she does to the point that she feels ridiculous and laughs at herself. If she ever sounds like a valley girl or even a little slutty, point it out (again, the key is being playful not mean). Trick her. Tell her things she should be able to figure out aren't true ("I traveled through time to meet you. Seriously. I was originally born in the 1840s. That's how you know our love was meant to be!" or "Did you know that my lap feels better than a Lazy-E boy? I swear I'm not bullshitting."). Place a bet on the table that's risky for the both of you (i.e. she lets you see her totally naked if she loses or you let her if you lose) and then play games to see who wins.