So an acquaintance of mine and this girl are together for like 1 year but their relationship is about to end in notime. On a party the other day I asked her her
status and said "i have a boyfriend, kind of" and started talking about hiw she wishes to break up. Talked like 2 hours with her and really connected, have a
lot in common. At the disco i started escalating kino with huge success, dance with her, did a good game on her, isolated but told her that i liked her but Ive
got values and im not the kind o guy who dates girls who have a bf. I number and msn closed, and kept chatting with her. I really wanna hang out with her but
I need he breaking up with him, i dont want a guilty concience... Anyways i was thinking of keepin in touch with her and she'd eventually letme know when
she breaks up, if she's interested, and then id set a date with her. Need opinions.


(had posted this under general questions but reckon this is even better place)

Where do you draw the line? You won't go on something called a "date" with her, but contacting and kino escalation are no problem?

I seems like you're on the fence. I don't think it quite matters which way you go, either. Perhaps she's just in an awful relationship, and is looking for someone else to come along and "rescue" her. If that's the case, doing what you're doing is going to land you in the friend zone. The other option is that you ignore her "relationship status, and be the person rescuing her.

If she's actually having a good relationship in the long run, and was just having a tough night, which all couples have some times, she may be embarrassed about your guys' interaction, and string you along, so to speak, if ou aren't very forward, which will waste your time. Or if you try to go for it, she'll tell you straight that everything cleared up and she's happy now.

Whatever you do, don't sacrifice our morals, as you left it a little unclear where you draw the line. But personally, it looks like better outcomes all the way down if you go for it, and see what happens. Good luck!

I draw the line on kissing tbh. I got no problem talking with someone on an emotional level or kinoing with people in general (im quite touchy btw), but kissing her didn't seem right at that time. Wonder if I can still be in contact with her and tell her not to talk about his BF in front of me and ask her out once they officially break up, something that looks VERY likely, thats a dead relationship, but being the guy an acuaintance makes it tougher.