This girl 9+ randomly messaged me on POF and soon I got her number. We've been texting since this past weekend. The first night I was a little tipsy(which helped my game) and we flirted the whole night. She kept complaining she was bored and wished she could see me. Kinda weird since she doesn't really know me yet. She kept asking me to send pics but I kinda just ignored those. I told her instead "tell you what, how about I stop by and you can see me in person...just 3 minutes ect." She asked my name and she added me on facebook ect. I felt like I was the on being gamed.

But today I've been getting a different mood. I think I'm screwing this up. Here's the last 24 hours text.

Me: I'm having trouble applying toothpaste. Can you come over?
Her: Haha to what??
Me: Guess
Her: I don't know..lol tell me
Me: I'm gonna let you think on that a bit
Her: Your toothbrush?
Me: lol duh, what else would it be?
Her: Maybe something naughty you never know
Me: Someone has their head in the gutter
Her: It was so random so I wasn't sure
Me: Right..
Her: Haha yeah...

(today)

Me: I just made you open your phone for no reason, looks like I got you in check
Her: Ha what are you talking about silly?
Me: What kinda trouble are you causing?
Her: None lol
Me: Lets meetup sometime this week/next week
(I'm out of town weekend which is why I suggested both weeks)

Her: And do what?

Me: Something fun. A horror movie and/or go downtown possibly. I'm open to other suggestions too.
(I asked about her interests earlier and she said "different things", not much to go on she said she likes horror movies)

Her: What would you like?

Me: Btw, what kinda things do you like to do for fun. Besides "different things"

Her: Shopping, movies, clubs, dancing, cooking, traveling, video games painting and all kinds of random things.

Me: Cool, at least we have some things in common, I bet I've been to more places than you have.

Her: Yeah you probably have.

This is where I'm stuck. I know I screwed up the last few texts but I just wasn't sure where to take this conversation. It felt like she went from interested to disinterested in 5 minutes. Not sure guys.

I'm tired and do have other stuff to do, I guess I'll let it sit for a few days and see if she responds? Still haven't gone 24 hours without a response from her yet so I guess I could try that.

I just don't know where to take things. I can never get from the phone to a meetup, that's where I always fail or they flake.

Never mind, just had a convo on facebook. I think she's a fake. Bummer:

Her: You're a horrible texter lol
Me: Thank you , I hate texting
Her: How rude
Me: Why? I actually like to meet and talk to people
Her: Haha, Okay then get on that
Me: What do you mean by that?
Her: Take it however you want babe
Me: Honestly, your really really confusing
Her: It happens
Me: I'm not even sure your real, there's a lot of weird people on POF that pose as cute girls...of course you could easily prove that wrong.
Her: Okay yeah, you keep saying this but I'm over it. Take care


????????????????? I have no clue what just happened there but I'm leaving it as is. I think she's a fake.

You came on too strong bro. Don't text girls on back to back days that you don't have a REALLY strong bond with. Don't constantly ask to meet up. Both of these make you look desperate and a little creepy. Instead, wait 2 or 3 days between texts, keep them really light, and act like you don't want to meet up. Say things like "texting is fun enough, what if you're not as cool as you seem?" when she offers to meet up.

First encounters should always be on a Monday or Tuesday btw. You want to look like you have an active social life, not like you're trying for her.

Glade

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