I met this girl a while back at a bar, and she seemed to really like me. We bounced to a couple more places throughout the night also. I ended up number-closing but nothing else (she somewhat spurned my advances for a kiss at one point). A day or two later I texted her. A few texts back and forth and I eventually suggested we meet up. She gives me no response to this, and her texts had been fairly short and distant anyway. I think I tried one more time and once again neither a yes or a no to meeting up. So I write it off as a loss and continue on in my life.

3 months later, she texts me out of nowhere and says she saw me at the gym. I say yeah that was me, and little else. She keeps texting wanting to extend the conversation further, asking me lots of questions, and asking me to recall details of the night we met (maybe she thought I was really drunk) but I remembered everything. For the past few days she has been pretty aggressive with the texting, and giving me some IOI's (e.g. "your facebook makes you seem really fun" "you are so funny" blah blah blah). I have still not suggested we do anything again because I feel like I'd look like a bitch if I keep being the one who gets shot down and comes back begging for more, but she actually does seem like a pretty high quality girl and is also quite hot. I know I would have nothing to lose by asking her out, but I would also like to improve my game here and maybe learn something. What do you master PUA's do in this situation?

she "seems" into you... but you must know if it's genuine. ask her to come by at your place. :)

p.s. this is called a compliance test

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I forget who I saw this posted by (Please let me know, and I will insert name here) but instead of a compliance test, mention to her that you are going out to a certain bar or club and tell her that you remember having fun with her when you had hung out before and that she should be there.

This creates a position where even if she blows you off you are already having a good time and have a chance for some sarging. On top of that she knows that you are going to have a good time regardless and is more inclined to want to be a part of that good time.

~CleverRomantic