ok so iv been texting this girl for a month and a bit now, we've met up to go clubbing with all our friends 3 times now and each time have spent the whole night drinking, making out and just having fun

i texted her at the start of the week telling her im going to club x and asked if shes coming but she was out of state(shed vaguely mentioned this before but i didnt ask what days she was gone) but that she would be back a few days later to come out, some more small talk and then the conversation finished

she got back a couple days later and i didnt txt her/start a conversation on facebook until yesterday (about 5 days after last time talking). i texted her saying "hey pretty lady, theres a big festival happening in town x tomorrow wanna come?" Its now the next day and still no reply, she was on facebook when i was but didnt start talking and neither did i because i dont want to look needy

what do i do here now? im not going to text her until she initiates contact now but i really like this girl and up until now i was 100% sure she really likes me too. if she doesnt reply do i just leave it and move on to the next? or do i give it a week or 2 and then try again?

thanks guys
shtuffy

You know, it's funny... Right now I'm in a serious relationship and I actually complain about the same thing!

Like, I text her "Hey let's do x" and no matter if she says yes or no, she always texts like 2 hours or more later. And she never texts first.

Someone here in the forum told me she probably doesn't want to come off as needy.

If you see her in the street or something, say hi and say "hey I'm doing this thing tomorrow" or whatever. Now, if she isn't texting back, I say wait at least one week, then get something really cool for you two to do.

Cheers

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