This is an issue involving one of the girls im currently gaming. A few weeks ago met a girl and got just about up to the point of no return and i managed to say no and push her away. I knew the logistics werent quite right for gettin the same night lay and didnt want to get buyers remorse. Anyway, she took my number and what not, text me the next day and she kept reinitinating contact with me, over two weeks i think i only text her twice to start contact, regardless, we escalated to the point where she was telling me all the things she wanted me to do to her. following this i then pushed her away again textin something along the lines of (sarcastically) ithink we are going too fast(we werrrent really). i said anyay i need to go, and she was like ok bye x, since then no contact what so ever, i deleted her number been a smart ass haha so cant get in contact with her. What did i do wrong? Where do i go from here when i see her next? Would it be safe to maintain the comfort zone, or just reinitiate attraction - i think that is the key since shes obviously lost interest. Up to this point everything was played sweet, now im clueless, good thing is i havent at all come across as needy with her, (though she seemed very much so) so i dont think success is out entirely out of the window either.