Hey guys, I'll try to keep this short. I have my ideas about this and it happened just over 2 weeks ago. I'm not taking it any further, I just want to hear what you guys think.

Ok I was out in a bar/club playing rock music in my city, and during the night two girls walk in, one wasn't so hot, the other was. And the hot one started to talk to my mate's friend. I said to the guy "that girl likes you doesn't she" and he was like "Yeah I think so". So I said "ok well you gonna do something about it?". He was all shy and I said to him, "Come on dude if you don't then I will".
Long story short I ended up building attraction with her, bouncing her and her friend to another place with my buddies and spent the rest of the night dancing and making out with her and got her number as well as building comfort. She was really fun as well as great looking.


I found out that of all things... this girl was a Maths teacher at a school not so far away, she's 3 years older then me although doesn't look it. And seemed relly invested in us seeing each other in the future and was pretty much head over heels for me all night. She was asking me whether I was still a student (which I am not) and I told tht I wasn't, because of her work there's some legal issues over teachers dating students or something in the UK. So that was number 1 of the reasons I felt she was thinking of meeting again, since she wouldn't ask questions like that otherwise.

Now here's the funny part, after we exchanged numbers at the latter end of the night, she kept saying to me "I know I'm probably never gonna hear from you again though..." She was worried that her being 3 years older was a problem and seemed properly worried I wouldn't contact her. (She had to leave in a cab with her friend late in the night)

Then the next day I did send her a text and part of it was "I told you I'd contact you again " ---- No reply.

Then I thought hmm ok maybe she's quite shy or something, so I left it a day and then (I play guitar in a cover band that regularly performs gigs in my town) I text her saying I have a gig on the next friday and if she want's she can come along, but I didn't put pressure on it. ---- I got no reply and she didn't turn up.

Also funnily enough she told me she lives in my village.



So I'm sure you guys may have ideas about what went wrong!

I'm not phased by this at all (at the end of the day I had a great night and lots of fun), my question really is because the situation seemed to be going so well and I need to know where my game went wrong so I can fix things like this happening again.

Cheers guys!

I would read somewhat on mystery method and "fool's mate" to see if you made any of the mistakes written.

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I know what fools mate is, I've even commented about that on others, I don't see how I've related to that in this post though.

But from what I've written it's a bit confusing. Maybe there are other issues going on that I don't know about that affected her. Ah well, on to te next.

How do you know that she said she would'n hear from you because of the 3 year difference?? maybe in her mind there was another reason...and I don't think you should'v texted her a day after.. wait like 2 days and the 3rd day text her.. or maybe she just gave you a flaky number because she didn't like the idea that you were much younger than her..