When i started with the whole PUA thing, i decided that it'd be time for me to enjoy life, meet alot of girls & have fun.. I did untill i met the girl of my dreams.
For most of you, this'll sound very Anti-PUA, but it's a whole different story for me.
The night started off with me & alot of friends going out to this newly opened club.
As we came in we noticed alot of people, packed in groups trying to avoid the dancefloor and just living their own lives.. It didn't take long before a mate of mine and i started making the party happen. Bringing up our best moves, people were looking and cheering for us, me with my typical Shuffle & him doing he's own thing, looking like an old man without hes walking stick, yet getting the attention he wants.
After a while of dancing, alot of people came up to us saying how ballsy we were and how good we could dance, then when i decide to hit off to get some drinks this freakin gorgeous hb 8.5 starts talking to me, saying how much she loved me shufflin!
I manned the fuck up and decided to have a good conversation with her, made her laugh, used quite alot of kino and also used the Catstring theory (God bless this method). She gave me alot of IoI's, the one that stood out most was.
Me: So what music do you like to listen?
Hb: I really like HipHop & RnB, I'm practicing some streetdancing myself!
Me: RnB & Hiphop? I'm very sorry but i dont think we'd ever fit together. (Running away with a sad face)
Hb: (Pulls me back) oooh cmoon, why not?
Me: Well, You do know our music is 180 degrees different, I like the adrenaline, not the softy chilling sort of music where people walk as if they carry a bullet in their leg.
Hb: ''Laughs''
After having a good talk with her, I told her i was gonna smoke a sigaret and asked her to come outside with me, She hesitated for a sec and then decided to come with me when i put up a nice smile (Eventually she told me how much she hates smokers.. Ouch)
We start talking again and this faggot comes in and interrupts us, talking shit about he's salsa dance and what not, luckily my target said he was extremely annoying and wanted to go back inside. When we got inside, Because i remembered that she loved shuffle & wanted to learn it, i used this to number close her - Saying: How about you teach me how to do streetdancing, and i'll teach you how to shuffle, she was really optimisitic about it and i quickly followed by telling her to give me her digits. sadly things got to an end, she had to go, i gave her a big hug, she held to me for a sec, then we both went home, and she waved me out with a big smile afterwards.
I told her i would text her the day after, but i couldn't resist but to think , what if she was just playing along & didn't give her real phone number? I texted her smoothly saying.
Me : Hey! I really enjoyed tonight, your a good girl! I'd like to get to know you better, Gnight & See ya tommorow!
She luckily texted me back
Her: Hey! I'm really glad that i've met you aswell, you seem like a awesome guy
. But, goodnight and do not forget our deal! (us teaching eachother our dances)
Question now, I found her facebook, but i didn't add her yet, I'm someone who's really up against talking through facebook.
I must say, I really like this girl, I've met many hb's in the meanwhile, but she shared alot of things with me in common, our goals in life, the way we think, music-wise, both passionate about dancing, etc.. I really cant mess this up
Should i text her, should i add her on facebook? What should i be texting?
This was my first story, hope you enjoyed it & i hope i can get some good feedback / advice.
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Thought this might be useful information, but the girl had totally no BS (Probably cause she opened and was amused by my dancing) so the way i had to game was really different, and not to say the least, very difficult aswell because she was so smooth, it kinda shocked me and in the meanwhile put me in a dangerous position not to end up in the friend-zone.
CHAT
as for now it think you should just try and arrange a meetup somewhere quiet and teach her how to dance you notice the signs when your with her