I went to a club with some friends last night and a girl who shares a mutual friend was their. Lets call her HB8 for the rest of the post.

Little bit of back story about my self: Back when i met hb8, I was the biggest of AFCs. I was honestly helpless with women. I had a serious case of oneitis (but not with HB8) for a bit, got over it and decided that I needed a lifestyle change. I recently purchased David DeAngelo's double your dating, read some of 60 years of challenges stuff (specifically the Micro-escalation stuff and his stuff about sexual tension).

So last night, hb8 walks into the club and immediately goes to hug our mutual friend and then spots me. I go up to her and we start talking and I start Kino-ing right off the bat. I put on the claw and she asks me for my pin (Blackberry messenger thing). I was a tad intoxicated, so i didnt push for the number. Then i grinded with her for a bit on the dance floor and then the people i was with left. I was going to kiss close, but like i said A) Im a newbie, and B) I was drunk, so i didnt get the chance.

So how should i handle it from here? The Blackberry Messenger this is basically just like texting, but I dont have her phone number. Any thoughts and ideas are appreciated.

- StoneCold

Bllackberry messenger is good and all but it is good to have the number. BBM her saying that you prefer to hear a person's voice so she should just type back her number.

Then don't phone too often and arrange to meet at the park, coffeshop something like that just to talk. It is important to have her alone.

thanks Abdul. Definitely will do and will update you.

What do you think about going with the

Me: "Do you have good fashion sense"
Her: "Yes (More than likely"
Me: "Perfect. I need someone to come out picking clothes for heading back to university. Care to help me out?"

You: Do you model in your free time
Her: No (more than likely)
You: Well you seem to have great fashion sense. Care to use your genius to help me lpick out some clothes?

It is loaded with compliments so she is inclined to say yes. It is a psycholigy thing you have given her something (feeling good) so she will help you out. It is a killer combo for getting anyone not just chicks to do your bidding.

Hahaha loving it

Thanks for the advice. Once again, il update you