Hey guys. I'm not an AFC or a newbie to pua. But i would like to get some opinions and comments about my game so far.

Met this HB7 at a friend's party in a bar (6 years older than me). I saw her around the party and i aimed to opener her up later as i was preoccupied and there where no AMOG there. As i was speaking to one of my mates she actually opened me up because she was really into me physically and she liked my avatar, i was wearing a sparkling skinny tie from primark lol. She said that she needed to go but i made her stay for 5 mins which i did some push and pull, qualifying herself, and did some kino high fives when she told me she liked shisha. got her fb close, messaged her for a bit and then ive moved on to text game.

take a look at the messages and tell me what you think.

ME:Hey shish buddy. How's it going? It was cool meeting you too. You seem like you could be a ton of fun.

What did you get up to at the shisha place? Were you looking for that special guy to look after you? lol

What have you been up to today?

M x

HB7: Hi .M..

Yeah, shisha was cool yesterday.. Quite a lot of us were there in the end, which was fun.

Special guy? At the mill\shisha?? Haha. would have been nice, but was hardly expecting that unless you're nominating yourself lol!

So, today had a big family lunch at mine, as a housewarming (moved into my flat a month ago). Got a friend coming round to see my place in a bit. What you been up to?

X

ME: Hey.

Thats cool. Haven't done shisha in ages. Yet it's still awesome, especially with morracan tea to go with it.

Haha We only just met for 5 mins. I think you're thinking to forward in our relationship already lol

A new place all to yourself? You're a very independent woman. I like that. Where abouts it is? New places are great. A place all to yourself and get to host many house parties there lol.

I've been really busy today. Did some stuff with my family in the morning. Went shopping to help a friend out get a present for his girlfriend for their 6th month anniversay. Later tonight I'm going swimming with some mates.

What do you do for a living?

M x

HB7: Heeey..

I am a further education teacher at a training centre in north london. Basically work with 14-19 year olds, and teach them English and Maths. But no holidays for me.. Joys of not working in a school!
What do you do?

Ps, where abouts do you live? I'm in ------, if you've heard of it.. Having a nice summer drink in the beer garden of my local right now!!

ME: Wow boys between 14-19 are the hardest age range to teach anything, particularly English and Maths lol. You definitely seem like a teacher, you had this kind gentle persona when i met you and a very strict side too lol. But I'm surprised that you don't have any holidays. I wouldn't think that anyone would be taking any exams right now in the summer, do they?

I graduated university a while ago, did a degree in ----. I'm doing some temp admin work at the moment but I'm getting into ---------.

I live near --------.

I don't think i have heard of ------. What is it like there?

x

HB7: HI ya

You saw me as strict?? OMG and there I had hoped you would have got a short, but incredibly GOOD impression of me lol.

No, I am not strict, I am assertive, and the only thing I command is self-belief and respect in my learners. I have a fab rapport with them, even the boys and have the highest exam success rate, so can't be doing too badly. Dont really have major behaviour issues from them. It's just the WAY you teach that governs how they behave, I think!

No, I dont get holidays, because I am not a traditional school teacher. But as I stare right not at the gorgeous sun outside, yes, I am jealous of those that do!! Oh well. Some people need to get into college in September, so yeah, we are open all year round

OOOh you sare a clever boy. what a good degree. I am very impressed..especially taking the leap into ----..why the change?

I used to live in ---- (where my family are from). ---- is a new complex built between --- and ---, from derelict land that used to be owned by the --- museum. 25 acres of stunning apartment blocks, greenery, and cute restaurants and bars..if you want to check it out... ? x

ME: I don't think I have heard someone speak so passionately about their work, especially the type of rapport they have with their students.

There's so much to say about the change in a facebook message.

You make it seem like --- is a tropical paradise. I do like to explore new areas of ----. I'll have to see how good of a guide you are of the bars there. We should check them out sometime. What are you digits? X

HB7: Hi ya

Well my job is so specialised and its dealing with so many people's troubles, that you kinda have to be passionate about it to do it. But yes, I am very lucky that I feel this way, although definitely still have days when I question why i put myself through it all lol!

---- might not be REAL tropical paradise, but it is my personal slice of paradise..and luckily feedback from others has been prety good.

So, do you live with fam? Friends?

of course you can have my number: its ------------- x

ME: Yeh everyone has those days where they question what they're doing and they don't want to do it further. But suddenly they get a big sense of rush, exhilaration and energy again to take on the challenges at work.

My number is -------------.

We'll be in touch soon x

HB7: Cool cool, text or call me whenever u want to have a lovely evening x

Text Game:

ME: Hey shisha buddy. How's it going? What have you been up to this weekend? xx

HB7: Hi ya stranger. Been a heavy drinking weekend. Now vegetating on sofa!! Urs?

ME: Haha Are you the heavy weight champion of the world? lol. Thats cool that you're a wild party girl. I thought that you would be the type to stay in on sat night, watch a movie and go to sleep at 11pm lol. My weekend has been really good. spent time with family in the morning. And now hanging with some mates at a bar. Were you out at all today or recovering from last night? xx

HB7: lol I'm a girl who likes many things: quiet nights in with the right company and wild nights out and aren't you a party animal drinking on a school night. i was out in ---- and ---- today. Bought some HOT killer heels. x

Please tell me what you think.

It seems like you are comfortable enough with conversation to pick up quick rapport. What may add to the vibe you're creating is varying the length of your responses, adds a level of intrigue. But that's really for future women you may text game, sounds like this one is ready to do you right now. Enjoy. . .

-H!j!nx

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Your response is too detailed and long, you need to transfer less interest else she'll be reluctant to meet you since she feels like she already has you anyways. You need to be more exclusive don't be afraid to leave a few hours between answers or make answers so short that's it's laughable.

Absolutely give short snappy responses. I am not sure about the frequency of your texts but leave unpredictable gaps between your texts,

Also you give way too many compliments to the point of ass-kissing.Talk about yourself every once in a while. I felt like you revolved around her.

Keep a bit of mystery about you and there is no point of running game if you aren't going to gear it towards a meet up.

Your dick cannot travel digitally.

lol words straight from my mouth except the txts you send dont always have to be snappy or witty as long as you remain fun playful and not to serious youl do fine.. never go into any rapport of course and again make sure that at some point you set a meet up, Abdul-aAfc is mostly right tho, it seems your investing a little to much in the interaction, i know of some stuff online that can help improve your txt and fb game let me know if your interested

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to succeed you must learn, to learn you must first fail

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Very interesting comments from you guys. The gap between the fb messages were considerably large as much as 6-7 hours. but with the text messages, she gradually responded much sooner than the previous messages. the time gap started to decrease to an hour and now less than 20 mins.

I dont feel that im conveying too much interest in her. i hope that you have noticed that im using the classic push pull technique, alternating between positive and negative validation, challenging her ego.

from the interaction i hope you can concur that there is attraction there.

update on text game:

ME: That sounds good you like to have a balance between the 2. very admirable you had the energy to shop after that night. i like the sound of your hot heels, but i don't think i can feel the heat from here lol. we should get together some time. how about we meet this ----- at the -------bar at 8.30pm xx

HB7: Hi ya. I always have the energy to shop. although maybe not the money lol. how was your night drinking and having fun? Maybe i'll wear my heel on thursday xx


so it seems that a date is on. i would like to know more about text and phone game. please let me know about any links.

i can see how it can work with the push pull, as far as more content, theres a book called the txt book at ajandjordantalkchicks.com/company-news/release-of-the-txt-book
its not free but worth the money, as well as a free site for txt game at http://howtotextgirls.com/ and finally if you have itunes you should definatly check out aj and jordan talk chicks.. its a podcast that covers a wide variety of things including txt game its free, if you have any questions let me know

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if actions speak louder than words then imagine what your intentions are screaming

to succeed you must learn, to learn you must first fail

Id rather be the one in a relationship instead of some guy id pretend to be...