| Id been on a few adventurous dates with this giirl (19, im 22), had a great time and did everything that would have closed a normal girl. (never kissed cause she seemed too shy/prudish)
i eventually let her know i wanted to be with her, she laughed and said "you dont want to be with me, id be a terrible gf, i dont want a bf now anyway", lets just be friends... she even said- dont worry, ill find you someone great (btw i said ill do fine by myself). So ehh, i was very humble and said sure, i can do that, cheers to our new friendship.
Didnt talk to her for a month and all of a sudden get a shitload of contact from her, wanting to hang out etc etc....
We meet up, went to dinner and a movie and things just felt different to me, i wasnt sure what we WERE together, like friends or a date? Dropped her home with a gay hug goodbye.
I kinda know her ex, so on the "date" i was asking about him out of curiosity, and got out of her that he slept with her good friend, BUT, she actually never slept with him (over 6 month relationship!!)
Ive put everything i can think of about her and came to the conclusion that shes a virgin and prehaps scared to be in a relationship with a guy from a mixture of that and being cheated on.
I want to know what i should do, as a virgin, she gets shy when i talk about sex and sex related topics, so i dont want to scare her anymore....?
Should i just straight up say, u are too smart and beautiful to just be friends with, we can take it slow, but i just have to be with you. (something like that)
What do u guys think?
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