Hey guys, in person i generally do not have a problem (not perfect) but over fb or texting i always get this same problem.

To my face girls are always throwing me IOIs and saying we should hang out and stuff and I can generally get what I want.

The problem comes when, girls hardly ever return my texts or when they do its the typical one word answers and from there it generally falls apart.

This happens over and over and the same girls will be all over me in person but for text based media its always dodgy, does anyone have a clue on this?

I'm curious 1 how you number close and 2 what your text game looks like.

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"J, I guess yer so amazing in bed you send the girls into a transcendent state where they realize their own mortality and are shaken by the realization that their presence bears little impact on the universe, or they just realized they hate you"
-DJ_Z

In general I run a few heavier compliance tests before simply saying, I want your number lol. My favourite is the one where i say give me your hand and see what she does.


As far as text game i dont think i have any, ive actually contemplated cutting it out alltogether and just calling, but alot of girls dont like talking on phone so early i find.

i usually just start with how i start irl, hey whats up.

For some reason I thought you were starting online game (my bad)


okay night game or day game and how much time are you spending with them before the number close?

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"J, I guess yer so amazing in bed you send the girls into a transcendent state where they realize their own mortality and are shaken by the realization that their presence bears little impact on the universe, or they just realized they hate you"
-DJ_Z

In general if im out sarging, it can be from 5 minutes to 2 hours, whenever we are departing, but its not those girls i care about. Im not new to picking up at bars and my style (as im sure you can guess what its like) makes me come across as super confident and sure of what i want. Girls generally are caught by surprise.

For example, there is a girl i work with that gives me mad eye contact and always is super nice to me but when i tried talking to her on facebook it was like 2 day later replies. I was asking her what her weekly schedule looked like.

This other girl that i see at the gym and sometimes we catch the bus together, literally talks my ear off but never replies to my txts, and i mean all i say is hey how are u.

The final fresh example is a girl thats like we should totally hang out bla bla and whenever i try to get her to come out she just ignores me.

i see them more than once and this pattern continues even after i call them on it.

Its just a really huge hot and cold act i get alllll the time. whyyy?

Well from my experience night game gives me a lot more flakes than day game. best thing I can say right now is spend at least 20min with the girl, the lest time you spend with them the more likely they're gonna be flaky.


If you can bounce for an "instant date" do it, I can't say I've ever gotten a flake with a girl that I've done the instant date with.


How long do you wait before texting/calling them after a pickup?

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"J, I guess yer so amazing in bed you send the girls into a transcendent state where they realize their own mortality and are shaken by the realization that their presence bears little impact on the universe, or they just realized they hate you"
-DJ_Z

It used to be the next day but I changed it to a day or 2 because I thought maybe that was the reason they weren't communicating.

I've spent longer than 20 minutes with all of these girls, I see them every week and they are into me every week, its only on the phone they get all weird. Thanks for the replies btw.

Keep in mind they are all 9+ and that I pretty much never hit girls with big negs, if any at all, seeing as i dont like being negative, maybe i need to change that but only if it contributes to this problem.

I'd try shortening your wait, I text a girl sometimes with in a few hours of the pick up and if not always the next day. You want to stay fresh in their mind, the longer you wait the less important you are. (from a memory stand point anyway)

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"J, I guess yer so amazing in bed you send the girls into a transcendent state where they realize their own mortality and are shaken by the realization that their presence bears little impact on the universe, or they just realized they hate you"
-DJ_Z