Hey guys
I have just got myself a new HB.
Last time I saw her, yesterday, I was at her house. She had free house. I fingered her. It was very nice

However she has said that she wants to wait for sex so that we can get to know each other better.

I see this as some form of LMR and would like to have sex with her asap.
I simply agreed as though it is no big deal, but how do I go about sealing the full deal?


Thanks for all your help guys, much appreciated.

first of all (no offense) but it is relevant to let us know how old u r

saying that fingering her was "very nice" leads me to believe ur either young or inexperienced, which is fine - just let us know so we can help u better

if u are one of the 2 above... then it is quite possible that she isnt ready and not at that point in her life
if ur determined to win this one out - read up on classic LMR tips from The Game. that'll be a good bet on an inexperienced girl.

for example:
next time ur hooking up and she doesnt want to go any further-
freeze her out. turn on the lights tv etc. When she asks what ur doing say something like: "When a girl doenst want to go any further: no means no. And i respect that, it's just kind of a turn-off thats all. I dont want u to do anything u dont want to do or dont feel comfortable doing."
then rinse and repeat

if this girl is inexperienced or a virgin - u may need to be in this for a LTR
u need to decide if it's worth it and put in the necessary time and effort

but by putting urself in the non-sketch ball non-pushy category is a going to help u out inthe long-run

if this doesnt help we need more details

cheers

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My friend you need to let her understand you're not just looking to have sex with her. Cat theory I bet you've come across as a try hard when you saw the first opportunity to get into the sack. Now you're in damage control possibly. Your still in comfort, and IF she continues then you need to let her know you don't just care about her for sex. Also keep gaming other women.

Mystery had talked about another good strategy about dealing with LMR on "The Annihilation Method" DVD.

You have to show the girl that you will stick around her after having sex. In bed by just telling her that you love her is AFC talk and will not work in most cases. You need to demonstrate it by putting it in your stories or actions. Tell her in some way that you got attached to her and that you miss her when she is not around and how good you feel when she does.