On friday night i had what i felt was probably the best night of my life with an aamzing HB 9 i picked up. everything that night was perfect, i had her paying for my drinks paying me into places, she didnt want to leave etc but at the same time she seemed like a respectable girl and although i was making out with her all over the show i had a strong belief i couldnt f-close that same night which was fair enough. That night we instantly made plans to go out the next day unfortunately the day after she was ill and it got delayed untill tonight. I met up with her and i acted exactly the same as i did friday, i wasnt doing anything wrong or atleast it didnt feel like it. She even said something like omg youre so confident. But after talking, few routines , making her laugh, seeing her positive body language playing with her hair etc and getting a good vibe. we end up in a convo where basicly at the end she pretty much made out that the attraction wasnt there anymore. But it aparantly had nothing to do with me... and at the end of the night all i got was a kiss on the cheek and i prolly wont be hearing from here again. Now what am i doing wrong? am i building too much comfort what happened here, i was pretty much exactly the same person i was on friday. Was friday just too much of a good night and because she didnt feel the same feelings she thought it was done? I mean she said a few times she did stuff on friday that she wouldnt normally do, she was a bit drunk etc etc but if i made enough of a connection with her, developed enough attraction and comfort for her to see me again.. then what is it? Should i have been more forward.. more pushy for escalation? I mean the moment i saw her today i tried to do something like put my arm round her or grab her hand, she immediately pushed it away and was like i dont even know you etc... this is so confusing.

I think im on a downer cos i realy liked this girl, not just for her looks but at as a person aswell. Shes 25, im 19 she thought i was 21... good job she never had to find out my real age.

all help appreciated.

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I see said the blind man, but really the blind man could not see at all . . .

shit man... thats a bit of an age difference... anyways, maybe shes trying to play hard to get, some kind of girl pua form

Should i just try take positives out of it. Like i k-closed a HB9/10 had a fantastic evening with her and shes 6 years older than me. Im pretty chuffed with it but i really liked this girl and wish it coulda carried on. Oh well.

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I see said the blind man, but really the blind man could not see at all . . .

Something probly happened t her on her 'ill' night that kiled it, dont you find it odd that she is too ill to see the guy she had hyper attraction to then blow him off the next night being healthy as a stalion? It's nothing you've done, shes either emotionally fickle or you got outgamed the night before you got you balls handed to you.

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'Oh my, you sir are the Moriarty of self awareness and personnal refelection'

What a title!

Not enough booze!!!

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Learn from my mistake...If a girl is interested in you and your interested in her, get her number before you get drunk.

The reason why she doesnt want to talk to you is because she feels bad about what happen. You said you she was drunk right. Well in her mind she is thinking that the reason why he is trying to hang out with me is because he wants to sleep with me. When you make out with a girl the only time you should be doing that is when you can isolate her somewhere where you can f-close. Other than that keep the making out out for the bedroom and soft kisses for when you meet someone.