| Most guys don’t know how or what to talk to girls about, especially when they have the girl on a date. The fact that a girl agrees to go out with you means that she’s interested. Your only job is to keep that interest growing. This is where most guys make mistakes.
If you don't know how to keep that interest growing, then you might as well just give up now--just kidding. It's actually fairly simple to figure out what to talk to girls about at this stage. This can even be done without following a strict set of guidelines. The key is to focus on questions that are fun.
So first, why questions? Questions are great for:
- Finding out the most information you can about the girl
- Using that information to generate better ideas for what to talk to her about instead of talking about the same boring things that everyone talks to her about
- Using that information to relate to her and build rapport with her
- Letting her do all the talking because most girls love talking about themselves
- Letting her do all the talking and minimizing the possibility of you messing up the date by saying something stupid
- Letting her do all the talking so you remain mysterious, quietly confident, and ultimately attractive
Second, why do your questions have to be fun? When thinking of what to talk to girls about, you should always be thinking of fun topics so that your conversation doesn't go stale and so that she remembers you in a positive light. Even though you will not be doing much talking, you will be the one leading the conversation when you ask her questions. So instead of asking her "what's your job like?" you should ask her "what are some guilty pleasures of yours?"
If there is a topic besides religion and politics that you should avoid when generating ideas for what to talk to girls about, it's anything related to her job or work.
Here are a some other fun examples of what to talk to girls about:
-Vacations
-Life changing moments
-Theme park rides
-Inspirations
-Childhood cartoons
-Drunk adventures
-Comedians
-Celebrities
With these fun topics, not only are you leading the conversation so that she associates you with all of these positive memories, you're also setting yourself up to turn the talk into action. For example, if she tells you about her favorite theme park rides, it's a great opportunity for you to ask her out casually by saying "I love that ride too...we should definitely go to Six Flags soon. We can get in for half off up until next week!"
So again, when thinking of what to talk to girls about on a date, remember to focus on questions that are fun.
If there are any other fun topics that you guys know of, feel free to post them here.
Hope this helps! _________________ Andy Yang
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