Okay so I understand what you need to do with a case of one-itus but I really want this girl. She would be my first 10, so of course she's bangin, and she's a ginger which is something I haven't had yet. Not to mention I haven't been laid in a few months (like six).

Quick background on why my sex life is sucking. I'm in the military and stationed on an island in Washington where most of the girls are whales and I only go for HB7+, then you have to factor in the guy to girl ratio for a military town, about three to one.

So, I met this girl last weekend camping with some of my boys and it seemed like it was going great. I recieved some good IOI's and the biggest thing I noticed is that she was looking at me for (what I assumed as) acceptance every time she was giving input into group conversations. For me I see this as her viewing me as the AMOG and a form of attraction. Besides that there was a lot of comfort building and a lot of touching. I, however, could not get a kiss close all weekend. She was talking a lot about ways to see me after this weekend, which made me think of a possible LTR, at least in her eyes.

Well once we got back and out of the secluded campsite we started texting, not great but I'm trying. Well it's been going decent for about a week but the texts have been nearly shutting down and I couldn't even get her to come over for a kiss close on my birthday. I'm still trying to play the badass, cocky funny person that I am but I fear that I may be seeming needy.

Right now my plan of action is to drop her for a couple days and see where it goes after she misses me. I would love an F-close out of this and would like some advice on it but I'm worried that either my one-itis is getting the way or that I'm f-ing it up some other way.

Oh, and by the way, I haven't really been able to get her to hang out this week, but she is a busy girl.

Gabriel

A women as only as busy as she wants to be, your last sentence makes me feel as though she just isn't interested. Sorry to break it to you. She may be stringing you along to tell her friends about how this sexy military guy and her are talking or whatever because thats how women are.

Anyways, a few things wrong with your approach (for future reference):

- The texting back and forth thing, don't do it. You should text in order to set up a phone call or meeting place only, imo.
- The wait. You said you went camping last week? Well you should be kiss closing last week if you want anything. When you get an IOI, you kiss close. People are very scared to kiss a girl especially the hottest ones, when they meet them. You need to be confident and just assume you are getting it once you get IOIs, and go for the kiss close.

As for your sex life sucking, that sounds like an excuse. I'm sure everything you said is factual, but at the same time, there's always a woman available, you just need to open your eyes. Maybe go for the 6



With this girl, you should probably text her "Meet me at 'x' at 7oclock" or something along those lines, be demanding. If she gives an excuse, text her back "your loss" and she'll respond with some BS, but don't text her back. If she's interested at all then this will pique her curiosity, and she'll text you in a couple days to a week to see whats up. At which point you text her back with something a long the lines of "enjoying life, going to 'y' tonight/tomorrow if you want to see me " then don't text her back, and see if she shows up.

It's a long shot, but its your only shot at this point.

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Well I guess that was my fear, is that she's playing me to feel "special" in a sense. I am also going to do what you said in the end where I'm going to hit her up later, for a certain time to see me and if she can't come than that's her loss.

Now the excuse on not getting laid, my facts are right, like you said. But, I do have the approach anxiety and it almost completely kills my game. I worry about what she would think or say like I should really give a f***.

Either way, I'm not sure if I want to go for a six, at least not a fatty. I know I look good, its just getting myself past the fear.