For whatever reason, the opening greeting in a D2 is a sort of make or break moment because I think women are looking for an initial sense of your vibe and also if it does not flow smoothly it can create a deadly initial vaccum of "lack of flow".

Somehow I seem to manage, but inside I am always freaking out about it until the initial D2 moments pass.

I would love to have a few generic onliners that ooze charm on any D2. I think some solid initial charm send the woman a message that she has made the right choice and lowers her guard quickly.

I do not remember what I have said in the past but it is usually more mundane like how are you, and followed up with a stack of silly stories. But I dont feel it is natural to do it this way. I would prefer to throw a bolt of two of quick charm and then pace myself and the beginnings of D2.

Anyone know what Im talking about?

I usually hit "Hey gorgeous how are you?" with strong kino– a hug followed by continued close body contact.

The key to this is timing and pace. It can't be too enthusiastic, it can't seem fake, and it must be delivered clearly at a smooth and even rhythm. The best way to do this is to not think about the intro at all, or better yet, anything at all. The more clear your mind is, the more confident you will appear.

Good advise I got once was, if you want her to be your girlfriend than treat her like that right away. How would you greet your gf that your excited to see?