hi Fellaz

Now I know about IOI's but never developed on SOI's. I have a feeling this is my weakness in avoiding the FZ. I'm funny cause I make women laugh, I know I'm cute because I have friends who tell me so and I'm smart enough for conversation.

My question here is how do avoid IOI's but also show SOI's? Planting that sexual seed into a woman's mind is still a bit of a mystery. Now I have had success last year but lately I feel some kind of Gamer's Block with material.

I'm in NYC with a new job to a strong possible career for me. Opportunities are coming my way I never had in the past 10yrs of my life.

The last girl I went out with was 1 1/2 dates. One of the dates I AMOG'd another guy but I was invited by her to join a workout class. The second was a whole day together in NJ for about 12hrs of jokes, planking & dinner. Hell I even met her Uncle & brother after she gave me a tour of her home town.

These all seemed to me like IOI's and expressing her value. I added some Kino while playing Planking and teased her abut her dirty thoughts.

The only draw back at the moment is this girl is also a trainer at my gym. She acts differently now after that night as if it never happened @ the gym. Its confusing me at the moment because I know we had a good time. We even mentioned future plans for a day @ my city.

My main problem is how do I give off SOI's without making things weird back at the gym. Also avoid being an orbiter when I see her everyday.

Today my plan was to make her jealous with one of the hot ladies at the gym who takes the same classes my target teaches. ANy opinions would be helpful.