Hi!

I'm new to this community, living in Madrid, 27.

I'll describe the process here:

I met a french HB10 (might be argued that is a 9.5, but this is my opinion). 25 years old. I ran the game smoothly at the beginning and worked well. She didn't answer for the party I invited her, but one week after I got a date with her, for a saturday evening-night. It went actually pretty good. We kissed, and things were turning really passionate. I'm quite proud of how I handled it. She said bye and repeated "thanks!" twice. Our fingers were in contact until the last moment our eyes stared at each other's. It was a film scene. And she was interested, the week after she wrote me an email everyday, and I did so back. I thought that at this stage everything works smoothly afterwards.
But on Wednesday her father came until Sunday morning, and then we lost contact but we had already an appointment for Sunday evening. Everything until here was under control....

But on Saturday she changed the plan: she wrote me that she was going to run with a (girl) friend at 16:00, so we decided to meet from 11:30 to 13:00, then I had to leave for my soccer match.

Ok, we met, but I didn't feel under control any longer, for some reason I was feeling that sort of "fake" love: half obsession, half powerless feeling. We met and I tried to hide that weakness, she might have noticed it a little bit but I kinda handled it. We kissed a couple of times, although with different passion than the last week.

I wrote her a message 3 hours after (yeah... maybe a mistake, but at least it wasn't too cheesy, just informing her that I scored 2 goals and that I was free that evening, that she should go out!). No answer. On wednesday I wrote her an email, with a little inside joke, and the following sentence: "Damn, we have to go out again, it was fun when we had time!!"

I have no response from her yet...

Note: A small detail is that she says that she never carries the phone with her (probably a lie, but I don't care as long as she is answering my emails). She took time from day 0 to answer, but since Sunday she has not answered 1 sms and 1 email.
Note2: She is ending her scholarship in 1 month, and must decided "what to do with her life"

Guys, my problem is that I'm obsessed about her and I can't think by myself, I need your help. I think that Note2 has something to do with this, after talking with her father and so on, but that's just overthinking on my side.


Thanks!

Hey Marklar,

congrads on the day 2 and the kiss close. From what its sounding like is that the "what to do with her life" might have a role with this one. Do you know if she plans on moving? Maybe she doesn't want to commit.

You said you sent her a couple of texts with no response - not a good sign. I would say one more tops in about a week that has some sort of connection, something like a band you guys talked about is coming to town or news about them. Don't ask for a date or anything, just point it out and say you thought of her - almost like you forgot about until you saw the news.

If that doesn't work, theres the hail mary that worked amazing for one of my friends.

like two or three months down the road - send her a text that looks like it wasn't for her at like a 2AM. "hey, the key is by the door, wake up when you get here." - basically a booty call text, that makes it like some girl wants you bad and she is willing to come over just for sex.

Then when she responsed in the morning, make it like no big deal and ask her how she is doing. That nails the jeolous switch hard.

GL!

Hey Axtion!

Thank you for your answer. I totally agree about that being not a good sign, and that it might have a role that she doesn't know her future. Last time I spoke to her she didn't know if she was moving to Barcelona or France, or staying in Madrid.
The casual text in a week is a good idea, what I had in mind more or less.

Hail Mary is a great idea too! I hope she keeps a spanish number. Long-term game has worked for me in the past, and she is totally worth it.

I must say that I was on the verge of sending her a romantic letter telling about my feelings. Luckily I held back. Man I feel like sick for her...

thanks a lot!

sounds like you got a good head on your shoulders. remember there are billions of girls out there and every interaxtion is a learning lesson.

keep your spirits up and I would love to know how things turn out!

Thanks man!

You're right.
I'll let you know what happens with J.

cheers!