Hey guys would love to get some help on a date that I am going on tonight. I think that the whole scenario needs to be laid out before a clear picture can be discerned and applicable answers can be given by you guys!
So I re-met this girl after a few years of not seeing her - we used to have mutual friends etc, and saw her recently on my lunch break and asked her out. Now, when I spoke to her via SMS and whatnot and after first date (where nothing exciting happened except for good convo) she mentioned ONCE and once only that she had a boyfriend, and this was done in a very offhand way where she was telling me some B.S story. When she mentioned that a friend had dropped her off somewhere she then literally talked into her hand and kinda mumbled "my boyfriend". Clearly to me that suggests that she is open to being with me or someone else and that her r/s doesn't mean the world to her. Or maybe not...
I'm meant to be seeing her tonight for a drink, except that this morning she messaged me asking me if it's still going down (as I hadn't made contact for a few days) to which I replied affirmative. She then asked if she can bring a friend. When I spoke to her on the phone later on in the day she sounded kinda apologetic that she had to invite her friend, who by the sounds of it had invited herself. So my questions are:
1) Do you think that she digs me and that I can pull her TONIGHT... I don't want to drag this out anymore in case I get into the dreaded FZ
2) The main question - how do I make this feel like a date still, pull her, and isolate from the friend whom I have met once or twice in the past; I see the major issue being that this girl will not want to look like a slut or a cheater in front of her friend.
3) Can I turn this into a threesome?
Thanks in advance!
CHAT