hey guys,

i met a nice girl in the weekend and i would like to go some steps further. on this upcoming weekend i have another date with her. we are about to go dancing. unfortunately i dont know what to do to make her "want me" or to make "out with me". in the meanwhile i have no problems approaching girls and talk with them and all that stuff. i dont even have a problem to get the girls to date me again. but when i date these girls again.... its like... the air is out of the balloon because i dont know how to get to the next stage. and the whole date is like the same thing as i met her the first time. -> we talk about ourselves, i tray to attract her and that stuff - but im stuck in that shit always... in the meanwhile its so frustrating...

can u give me some hints what to do on this date in the weekend? or the story repeats itself and its just another "nice evening" with a beautiful girl, without any deeper feelings...

thanks,
david

on the second dates i always try to make a connection the first one. i talk about things that she loves to do - for example her dog, her horse, her "whatever". that makes her always to have a good mood and most of them say "oh how nice - u remember this and that shit blabla..." . in addidtion i try to involve touching her and stuff but it seems i cant build up that "emotional feeling" - mh hard to explain...