The Secret To The First Kiss (Without Rejection)

The secret to getting the first kiss is based on the same principle for all physical escalation with a woman: testing before advancing.

Most frustrated guys go through an entire date without developing any attraction and then wonder why going for the kiss is so awkward. Then again, there are other guys who successfully build the attraction significantly during the date for a kiss. However, those negative thoughts in his mind talks him out of advancing out of fear of rejection.

The first kiss is not supposed to be awkward. Sure, you will still get slight anxiety from anticipation, but not from fear of rejection.

You must test before you advance!

The simplest way I found to do this is when you feel the moment is right, before you lean in for a kiss, gently brush your finger against her cheek. If she pulls back or makes a slightly awkward face, it is not time to kiss her. You should continue building attraction. If however she does not move and even seems to like it, she is ready to be kissed! You will not get rejected!

I found testing for the first kiss this way to be a simple and surefire way to avoid rejection.