| I thought I’d post this because it works for me 90% of the time and 9% I still F close at a later date for whatever reason
First of all, if you can, meet her at your house or think of some reason to quickly pop back to yours. Let her get comfy and leave her alone for about 10-15 minutes with some music or tv ect. Then go on your date. The reason for this is for her to familiarize herself with your place, and for her to feel comfortable that coming to your house doesn’t mean you’re gonna jump all over her.
Now when you’re on the date keep the kino to a minimum just do little bits of kino and then release. Make sure you’re building compliance… if she doesn’t comply this is when you playfully push, and when she does comply you pull. Keep your compliments about her personality or character rather than her looks or sexiness. Also remember to maintain a lot of eye contact and smile.
One of my favorite gambits to use on a day 2 is the, 3 things I like about you routine… At a point when you are looking into each others eyes, tell her that there are 3 things you like about her, then tell her two of the things like her eyes/smile whatever. It works best if it’s something you genuinely like. Then pause and say that you’re not going to tell her the third thing because you don’t want her to get a big head. Wanting to know the 3rd thing will drive her crazy! When she brings it back up say maybe ill tell you later and grin. If done properly she wont want to leave your company until she finds out.
Don’t spend too long on the actual date. Have a reason to bounce her. Like your not feeling the vibe, or my ex has just walked in and she’s a physco, whatever just make sure you bounce her before she feels too tired or that it’s a bit too late to go to your place.
Now for the most important part! When you get her back to your place slowly raise kino until you start kissing. Then when she gets really hot, breathing heavy ect. Stop her and say something like, I’m trying to be good, or you’re making me want to be naughty. Cool everything down and then repeat the process until you’ve teased her enough and gotten her absolutely gagging for it. Then take your prize! If done properly u wont get any LMR. At most she might say something like, “I thought you were trying to be good” to which you respond with something like, “its your fault I told you to stop” or “I tried but I just cant help myself with you”
I know some people will say you don’t need to go on a date just get her straight to your or her place. That’s fair enough if it works for you. However for anyone that has trouble F closing quickly I would suggest you pay particular attention to the last paragraph. I hope this is helpful _________________ Only those who risk going too far, can possibly find out how far they can actually go!
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