Ok so I've been talking to this girl over facebook over the past few weeks. It started off as friendly talk and at the end of one of her messages last week she said
Her: "I'm up to chatting/texting sometime "

She also asked like 3 or 4 questions in her message before that (about me living overseas ect.) So 2 days later(genuinely busy) I message her back briefly answering 2 of them and saying at the end of my message

Me: I'd definitely like to chat sometime too, what's your number? Maybe I can answer the rest of your questions through the phone

So it takes her 2 days to respond with:

Her: my numbers XXX-XXX-XXXX. feel free to text anytime im usually crazy busy with work and class, so if you text me and it takes me awhile to respond, then thats why lol


So the next night I text her with:

Me: Can you guess who I am?
Her:My name? lol (3 hours later)
Me: Wow, how did you know!

and ..it's the next day and she hasn't replied. Did I already blow it? What should I do?


I've read you should be playful in your first few text messages. With girls in the past they have trouble guessing so I tease them about it, she guessed the first try. Wrong idea?

she has a boyfriend...