So I started talking to this 9. She ended up texting me and saying we should hang out during the weeknd. So I wait till Friday, text her and see if she likes Thai Food. She says yes so I tell her shell love the place I want to take her to tomorrow then.

So I pick her up, she introduces me to her mom and shows me her room and we leave. She immediately starts telling me her life story, as in all her problems and talking about many of her EX boyfriends etc...kinda weird but I felt it made her vulnerable so it made me less nervous because she is smoking.

We go to dinner, and then to dessert where my buddy whos family owns the restaurant gives us dessert on the house after the place is closed. Then we go to the movie but during the movie I forgot gum and my breath is bad so I do not dare to whisper to her! And since it was our first time hanging out, I did not do enough Kino unfortunately..... I did open every door and the car door when we would leave everytime....whatever that means =P

So she texts me she had a really great time that night and I tell her me too Goodnight! And she texts me back later...p.s. my mom likes you.

The next day we text but when I mention I am good at giving massages(in a totally not creepy way) she dosent text back for two hours and when she does she is in good humor but i was pissed so I didnt reply....

on Valentines day, I suprise her with her favorite sees candy and a flower waiting for her in front of her house....she says i am incredibly sweet and it brightened her historically terrible day and we texted a little after that but she hasnt texted me since....its been two days....

She is leaving for Boston for 4 days so maybe she is sidetracked and thinking about other things and I'm sure I can get a second date. I'm just worried and really want this to work....Thank you for anyone whos read this. I extremely appreciate you taking the time.

Any help or suggestions on what to do would be awesome. I plan to just not text her until she texts me as to show her I'm busy and not attached although I am a gentleman and do nice things for her.

Hey man. I'll be completley honest with you..

Giving a girl flowers and candy after 1 date (where you didn't even kiss her) is not the way you want to do it.

Dont get me wrong, girls enjoy having a gentlemen but you did it way too early.
In my opinion don't text or call her until the night she leaves, and say "Hey have a good trip to boston"

good luck

Thank you for the honesty. You are right. It was valentines day though....who I am fooling haha...thanks for the advice. anything else would be appreciated. What's your opinion on opening doors?

I think opening doors for a lady is a very nice thing to do, but I personally dont make an effort to do that at the beginning.

You need to be attractive and attract her in the beginning.
Then once everything is balanced and you both have feelings for each other, slowly let out that inner gentleman.

The quote "Nice guys finish last" is incorrect, but the nice asshole guy never wins the race either, its the one who knows when to be nice, and when to be an asshole.

Hope that makes sense.