Hey, I was just wondering if its smartest to ask a girl straight up what her boundaries are? Or to just find out because they might have different thoughts when theyre in the situation? And by boundaries i mean how far they will go sexually.

hey, thats a fair question and its one that i feel i found the answer to a couple months back.

A girl won't have 'set boundaries' like a map, only comfort levels you need to reach for her to feel your acceptable to 'do certain things' with. obviously there are girls who tell themselves that they won't do certain things, but as shocking as it might seem the reality is girls can succumb to their desires just as men do.

while we sometimes might tend to 'think with our dicks', girls will tend to forget or willingly cross their 'boundaries' if put in the right state of mind (driven to a point of horny desire). in other words, to answer your question no girl gets off by telling a guy how far he can go, its your job to make her feel comfortable with what your doing. so your not doing you or her any favours by asking for permission or instructions on how far to go.

(ps: when i say don't ask for persmission i DO NOT mean against her consent)

Thanks for the advice pro tean.