Hey guys. I hanged out with HB8 this night,actually just came back and decided to write it here. It was my 4th time out with this girl, we were really hitting it off. She is amazing. We went for a walk like an hour ago and we talked and laughed. Did kino and mostly stealth attraction I would say. She gave me a lot of IOIs. We are living very close to eachother and decided to walk her to her house. I stopped, touched her hair, looked her deep in her eyes with a lot of confidence, went for the kiss almost came close to her lips and she backed away. Then I said " Don't blush, please. Even if you are not a good kisser, don't worry, I won't tell anyone". She looked at me but seemed scared. I asked her once more " What would you do if I kiss you" and she responed " Don't know" and I said " Let's find out". Went once more and just kissed her 2-3 times on her cheek. She hugged me and I went home, sitting here and asking myself what was wrong...

Sometimes stealth attraction isn't always the "clearest" on IOI's as per say working a routine.. neg.. routine.. small talk.. k/n-close. Maybe she was confused by the stealth attraction and gave off mixed signals mistaken as IOI's. Sometimes coming right out with the k-close lines isn't the best as working solid game, getting her staring you in the eyes with that connection and waiting.. make her want it more then you. Kiss close is big in bars because your showing all the guys there your the ALPHA, your the man... 1 on 1 you don't need to push for it because she IS there hanging with you 1 on 1. Next time you hangout (if this reply isn't too late) run some seduction tactics... then NEG her down as soon as she shows interest.. "I've been meaning to ask you is that a wig/extensions?"... if she says yes.. continue the neg. There are plenty of good ones out there... let her seek your approval.. remember.. your the ALPHA. Hope this helps..

Cheers,

Stryker16

Thank you very much @stryker16. I should definitely use some techniques. I decided to try the stealth attraction this time. Talked mostly about emotions and her desires. As far as I know it's the most powerful technique out there. You show her, you care about her and you want to know more and more.

Yesterday night, after what happened and handled the situation with confidence, I wrote her in SPAM " A bit of drama isn't bad, right?" she said " Ofcourse Not". And now I come back from school (it's my last year) logged in Facebook and saw she commented a picture of me " so sexy ". I should have handled the LMR at the moment. Must have continued kissing her on the neck slowly, breath slowly too but it was cold out there and I decided to turn back and go to my house. The game is not over, it has just began.