So I did really well last week with a girl, she seemed very into me and wanted to hang out again, everything went as planned and I think I gamed very well.

Asked her to hang out last week, telling her she should come to a party with me. She replied "I would but I'm gonna be out of town until next week at my sisters house, get ready for when I come back". She got back two days ago, I haven't bothered texting her, I'm waiting for her to contact me. Is this a good plan? Or should I try re-initiating contact?

any thoughts?

re-initiating contact! lol. you didnt text her while she was away, so she prolly thought you wernt interested. id go with this frame i just put together from my cheat sheet. (assuming she gives the answers)

Me: Hey ive been thinking….want to rob a bank with me
Her: lmao what?
Me: Seriously, I need a partner. Are you driving or are you shooting :p
Her: blah blah
Me: Oh a badass huh?
Her: yup =]
Me: ha. oh. u better stop btw
Her: Stop what??
Me: Thinking about me and smiling =] I can tell you’re doing it right now
Her: awe yadda yadda
Me: yea =] so you ready to do the whitest thing imaginable with me?
her: maybe. whats that
me: goto the mall with me friday. ha. text back 1. for yea or 2. for hell yea

hope this helps

Boys, boys, move aside. Do you want to just have endless daydream texts with this girl or do you want to SEE her? Remember back in the day when a girl would wait by the phone for her crush to call her? Nothing has changed. YOU are the MAN, SHE is the GIRL, YOU are the one who CALLS or texts, if you're a scared boy. What would a MAN with BALLS do in your situation? Well, let me tell you what I'd do, I'd apologize for not getting back to her sooner and I'd tell her WHERE and WHEN I want to see her. See what I did? I seized the reigns and TOOK CONTROL. I didn't waste my time with wishy washy bank robbery fantasies, I didn't make up excuses to text her. I TOLD her what I want, when. Easy. You will learn that there are a hell of a lot of women that like to lay back and relax and let the man do the planning.

Also the mall is the most miserable "date" I can think of. If she doesn't think you're gay, she'll at least think you're just friends.

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