Hi I'm new to the forums so please excuse if this is in the wrong section

Basically on Saturday I went to a bar wih some mates. This fit girl was there and is a friend of a friend. She started trying to tease me about my clothes and hair so I replied by defusing her remarks and turning it back round on her. We started chatting and pretty much hit it off. After the bar we went on to a club and she tagged along with me. I bought us some shots and beer and she wanted to dance so I obliged. When we were dancing she pulled me towards her and I leant in and kissed her, fondled her body and tongued her neck. We were kissing all night and got a lift back with a mate. I live with the rents so she couldn't really come back to mine. She kissed me and left. She texted me a couple of times that night. In the morning Irealized I had left my debut card in her bag so said I'd meet up with her sometime this week and we could dO something anyway. It's been a day since she last texted me to say the only evening she can't do is Thursday; I thought I'd leave it as I don't want to be over eager. I want to meet up Wednesday evening. What shall I do? Take her to a bar or movie or something? There's not much else to do unless we go to London which is 30mins away but she has college in the mornings. Also I really want my debit card back.

Sorry if this is long winded or n00b-esque,but I'd appreciate any suggestions from seasoned pros on how to get into a relationship with her. I've met alot of chicks but she is definitely potential relationship material hopefully and I DONT want to screw it up

Cheers,
Lat.

Dude, it's too early to be thinking about relationships. You're probably a mix of inexperienced, insecure, and reckless. Just slap that thought out of your head for a couple weeks, otherwise you're kind of a psycho. And this is from someone who HAS turned girls into girlfriends the first week. DON'T DO IT, you want to just date for a month and make sure you're rock solid, otherwise you will end up frustrated. If she's open every night to meet you, I'd say she doesn't have much going on/is interested in you. Have her meet you somewhere you like, start getting to know her.

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31 and still figuring it out.

Cheers for the reply bro. You probably think I'm a mix of insecure and inexperienced, re-reading my post now it does look like that, but i've been in a couple of long term relationships and had a lot of casual girlfriends. I'm no pro but to be honest I have a very strict vision about what I want in a girl, I get turned off easily. I know its way early but this girl has exactly the same taste in music, is artistic, intelligent, gets my weird humour, is not really girly-girl, and is incredibly attractive. Now I'm meeting up with her tonight, I just said I'll pick her up after college, and she said yeah. Let me just state I left my debit card with her so I HAVE to meet up with her early on. I'm gonna take her to this awesome little tapas bar just to hang out. Are there any other recommendations? Shall I just keep it short but sweet?

Keep it short by changing venues. If things go really well for me within 2 hours, I'll just take her home to watch a movie or something for privacy. Getting turned off easily can be a sign of fear, disqualifying people and having impossible standards is a good way to keep people away, you know? But anyway, play everything by ear, don't get muddled up in the future.

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31 and still figuring it out.

I imagine you did whatever you were going to do. If I didn't have anything in mind I'd just randomly take her out the front door, walking to somewhere. She's already made out with you, she wants to be around you, so what's the worry? Now it's just down to sharing experiences of whatever sort.
You need a seasoned pro to tell you how to have a relationship with a girl who definitely likes you and has already made out with you? Just let it happen dude. If you're not letting it happen then you are afraid of something. In which case you don't need a PUA, you need a shrink or an advice columnist.
Why are you going to screw it up? What's the gloom and doom?