So this girl finally confessed that she liked me so after a while of texting back and forth we finally hung out. were in bed getting ready to go to sleep and after a bit of kino we started kissing. she said she didnt want to do anything else on "the first night" and after we stopped making out i asked her if she wanted me to go down on her. she enjoyed it immensely so then when i tried to tell her it was her turn she wasnt having it. so after a bit of bickering i was atleast able to have her give me a handski. and then she was pissed because i "made her" do it.

we had made plans earlier to hang out the next day and when i texted her after i had dropped her off back home she sent me a text saying that she felt real uncomfortable with what had happened last night and that we shouldnt hang out for a couple of weeks. and other than that she seems to be pretty unresponsive towards me when it comes to texting or calling.

What should i do?

hey man, i think u messed up when going down on her, and asking her to give u a handy, sound like buyers remorse to me. every girl dislike people thinking she's a slut, but she truly hates, if she starts thinking shes one. i got a good move for next time this happens:

right when ur kino is elevating till the point u feel she's sexually araused, U should be the one who tells her, that u dont know each other that well, that u should slow things down... she havent heard this in her entire life, i asure u. so afterwards, play a movie, or do something unsexual. if the date keeps going go n kiss her n aroused her again, keep doing this telling her to stop teasing you! (the deliver and the take away is the most important thing) afterwards, if she doesnt try to do a bigger move on u just leave, next time u see her, she will throw herself at your arms, n dick!

in this specific case, as u say its a 9 n no one want to let a 9 go, what i would do is try to take the importance of what happens acting as it didnt, just be fun n playful with her on ur txt game, dont call her, give her a couple of weeks till she finally laughs about something u txt her, n u feel she really meant it. then give it an other couple of weeks without txt or calling, n then give her a call on a non weekend day n tell her u need to pick comething up, or u need to buy a present or something like that, n u need company. so she thinks ur off the sexual part n agrees to see you.

hey if she gave all she did, she must like u, n find u interesting n fun, so try to recover that... let me know how it worked out!