History
I got my friend a job at my uncle catering company and we work together. Christamas eve a friend of my uncles/ customer came in with his daughters. Both me and my friend automatically recongized one of the HB but didnt know from where but were both grimey from hard day of work and didnt talk to them. Boxing day me and him went to the mall and we realized whered we had seen her before. talked a little but it was such a hecktic day didnt persue it much further than introductions.

Today i was at the mall with two different friends and saw her again and told them im grabing her number. So when i went up to her kioski said wuts up blablabla she had asked me my last name cause she wanted to look me up on facebook i told her that i dont have facebook because its too much bullshit. anyways i said we should grab a drink sometime and got her number. then left met up with my friends that had walked away.

I texted her shortly after "hey its me now u have my number too." she replies with "good now u can entertain me while im at work ;p" blablabla asked me how old i am told her 19 u? she said 20, soo oldd lol. ancient i said. then she askd bout my friend that he lookd familliar is he your age? which i replied no year older nd he used to go to mcmaster college. she said "thts problliy where i know him i go ther too... whats his last name" (probly to look him up on facebook but me nd him are probly the only ones outa my buddys that dont have it) but i gave it to her anyways and asked what program she was in.

now all the previous were pretty much back and forth. but i asumedwhn she culdnt look him up she thought i was lying or somthin cause it took her couple hours to respond with "im in kinesology its legitt.. gve neil(my buddy) my number too we should all hang out sometime"

so right away i thought WTF........................... seriously WTF!!!!

i thought bout an apropriate response that didnt make me look bad "Ill talk to him next time i see him.. well set somthing up" to which she replied "sounds goodd"


Now my DILEMMA

i dont know what to do next because i dont know if i set them up ill get thrown out off the entire situation her or her freinds/ sisters
or
if it was just a shit test to see if ill just toss her number away
or
if im just over thinking things
or
if i should even tell my buddy about it because we were talking bout it before and she was sapose to be mine(im not saying women are objects to posses but i had called dibs and he was cool with it)


Any advice what so ever would be great.



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Sounds like she chose him. Be a buddy and let him take his shot. She might change her mind; it's a woman's prerogative.

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31 and still figuring it out.

Haha this is funny shit

So this girl likes your friend but you dont want her to like your friend so you don't want to do this or that cause you think it's a shit test HAHA im so confused.

Okay first off to calm you down

You are over thinking ALOT, and second off, too put you on your toes again, you failed the shit test. the shit test was being all " YES MASTER ILL DO WHATEVER YOU TELL ME, PLEASE BLESS ME WITH US GETTING TOGETHER SOMETIME"

shes into your friend clearly, i think you lost her imo and let your buddy have her, thats a mans way hit on another girl and show her you really werent that into her in the first place, in fact you were just working for your buddy the whole time and if she asks, wait you never liked me at all, just joke with her and be like "hahah good one, you wish you could keep up with this" get a response to this and your buddys in the dust trust me

Keep up the work

Fender43

Ya man i was totally over thinking things WAY too much. But respect for setting my head straight, there are thousands of beautiful women out there what do i have to lose by hooking up my buddy.........nothing i gain more opportunities.

p.s. To everybody out there, your friends are there to help you out so might aswell help them out. But make sure they dont blow it cause all your work was for nothing

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