Okay long story short, I have a first meet up with an HB. I have a solid outing planned so thats no problem. I just have a few questions about the outing.. I can honestly say this is my first one on one so I have no prior experience. So hear is quick overview of date.. walking around downtown viewing lights.. maybe stop into a bar or two. The only problem is that I have no clue if she thinks its a date.. She is going to meet up at my place then I'm going to drive so that we can eventually end up at my place.. So with that minor background info..


When we hit up a bar, or similar.. How do I handle getting drinks, or i guess anything? I have heard different things about buying stuff for hb's.. Buy first round then say next place the round is on you?



and like the title said, When would be the ideal time to go for a kiss?


Also, if any of you have any awesome links on kino and ioi's i would greatly appreciate it!!

It all depends on the vibe & logistics.

There should really be no set-time on this.

If you're 2 hours in on the date and the vibes are going boring,a kiss would be a no-no.

But if you're 10 minutes in and the vibes & energy are crazy wild or sexually charged,go for kiss.

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So what if she doesnt think it's a date!

Women hate dates;especially 1st. one.

I like that you'r planning a stroll,then maybe a stop at a bar.

Since you would have already gotten to know her,flirted prior to entering the bar,it's acceptable to buy her a drink.

You dont buy random girl drinks who you'd just met at the club.

But if it's a so-called date,and you're already acquainted-it's all good to buy a drink.

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instead of focusing on " when the times right " you should focus on builiding sexual tension so that it appears to happen naturally.

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Since you are going on a date, its okay to buy her a drink.

Watch the IOI's, as soon as you get some you can use the triangle look (look into her left eye, then right eye then her lips).