Yo Whats Up Forum?
Hell Yea!!! So last night was great, had a blast! Felt like a Superstar. But that's not what this is about, well at least just not yet.
Ok so I got 2 cases I need some advice.
Case 1:
Background:
-It was approximately a week or more ago I met this girl at my buddies birthday celebration at the bar he works there. We his best friend also my friend brings his girlfriend and she brings her friend.
She seems really closed off back to the wall sitting, not really communicating. . . .So I go up to her and her friend as use my personal "Condom Opener" (That sounds funny) Anyway. . .after that we get into some chit chat I told her that she "looks to innocent, she looked like a church girl" tossed that around a bit! I used very little Kino and I should of used the "Chair Turn Technique"
Oh well.... So i kept moving around communicating with other people didn't want to give her all my attention (plus I was running out of shit to say: she was very closed off, I mean she was flirty and she was into me (I think) but she just wasn't offering up any words. Well that may have been a mistake not give her all the attention because I did her a favor and got her comfortable and she began communicating with other guys. She moved to a table, still with her back to the wall I jumped in and Opened the group, and trying to steal her. I was pretty hammered by this time! She was on her way to leave So I asked her "Hey let me get your number" Cant remember the exact exchange in conversation but she said "No" I must of said "serious or really?" She said "you could be a perv" I said like "come on really" she said "find me on facebook" I got her name and boom!
That is the background story on this one!
Current:
Here is the current situation I found her on facebook a week after I met her and messaged her I will copy paste our messages thus far: (oh and i still havent requested her nor her, me.)
(ME; October 18 at 10:49pm ): Hey Church Girl!
Wow! You're more popular than I thought. We have a few friends in common.
(GIRL; October 19 at 7:00am): Hey! R u sure we got friends in common or ur fb stalking me?? Lol jk how u been?
(ME; October 19 at 9:16pm): OMG Missing me already!
I'm great! Preparing to head out to PHX again. Hey! What are you up to tomorrow? Would you like to join me for a cup of something wonderful and some stimulating conversation?
(GIRL; October 20 at 6:39am): I work all day frm 8 to 8 pm =(
Follow Up: She responded to my messages via mobile and her profile is on like private setting, I can only see her employer, college and Highschool.
Question: Need some advice on what to do next, obviously write her another message, what should it say? Should I ask her out again? * I was gonna punish her for not coming out with me, because she could have made it happen "lunch break" "after work" so I was not planning to reply till Sunday- your thoughts?
*This is the message im thinking! "Church girl, church girl . . . What are we gonna do with you. . . No biggie, I was busy getting ready to conduct my seminar in PHX plus I had to teach that night. How about this week? Send me your number and Ill get my secretary to schedule something
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Alright let me know guys Thanks!
Case 2: (Starting to think maybe I should have posted this separately)
Background:
I am at the Bar last night, having a good time I see this girl, but don't really talk to her I know some girls she is hanging out with from back in Highschool. Anyway, I see my buddy over there talking to her, (were not so close anymore) Still I had no idea what he was up to so i went and said hi and well she was (shit I cant remember) But it was the cutest thing like its probably been about 5 years since i flirted that well with a girl! (I would say we were both playing hard to get in our exchange, but totally playful) We both bust out laughing, she say OMG I like this guy introduces me to her friend and asks her to take a picture. Shes doing alot of the leaning in to me etc. (My friend dissapeared a long time ago lol: sorry man!)
Anyway so my boy that i came with is chatting up this other chick and well there going to fuck the chick told me she was gonna rape my friend! I said ok, we talked and she was like you should come drink at my house. I was like yes, do you know those girls? (I pointed) She says (***) and (****) She knew them I was like hey invite them to come. So we leave they are in there own car I am in my car and my boy rides with his chick.
We get to her house and the girls are in the car, they wont come in, My target is crying about someshit, anyway they finally come in my boy and his chick are about to throw it down right there LOL and Im lets take a shot! Well nobody wanted to do shots, we talk find out she dated a body of mine from back in highschool, she has a kid. I told her "great i love kids" she looked at me "really" I said "yea" She was like "people usually are like oh. . . .you have a kid ;/ So maybe some points there. Anyway they are trying to go to some friends to hangout! I say me too, and there like ok lets go!
So I ride with them in the back seat, they got lost, I negged them both alot. Maybe too much, and was trying to get some kino, from the back seat! (my opinion seemed creepy reaching up there) but who knows. Anyway we get there there friend is going to sleep so they drop me off at my car and I hug them by kiss on the cheek, except with my target I might have gotten some lips. Oh I forgot to say at the bar I got her number, she didnt get mine. But I wake up this morning and she flippin friend requested me on facebook Bwabwaaaahahaha!!!
Question: So I do not plan to except until we meet up, so my next message to her will be basically the same lets go out and get something to drink. . . .
Let me know should I accept her friend request now? Should I message her before I ask her out? What should I say? How many messages? Or should I text her? or call her? (I have her number) Should we talk on the phone? or should i just ask her to meet up?
*********Ok Forum and my fellow PUAs this is the longest post i have written ever! Thanks for reading it all and all of your insight! To make things easier in your responses, just refer to them as Case 1 and Case 2. Thanks**************
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