Alright, the background: introduced to this chick by a friend and his gf trying to hook us both up (Thanks Tony!). We hit it off night 1, salsa dancing leads to kiss close but an out of town visitor means no going back to her place. Date 2 goes well, we get hot and heavy, clothes are ripped off, but she has her "." so no sex, but fool around. Have a third day spent with her and wind up sleeping next to her but no sex b/c I am leaving town the next day (commitment issue her side, my side I don't care to push chicks when told no).

There is definitely some one-itis going on on my side, but the quality of this girl makes me hesitant to just let it slip away without some fight.

So I leave town for 1 month, and try to time bridge, mostly unsuccessfully. I am now back in town and ask if she wants to take me up on that raincheck dinner I offered her before I left. The text response as follows:
"I got ur message. Ill take the raincheck but if it can be as friends. I'm not sure feel a romantic connection between us. Sorry."

I'm still working on a response.
Suggestions needed and welcome.

Obviously, time bridging for such a long time with so little interaction (and emotional commitment) on the front end means there was not enough to keep her interest. I am confident that I can swing her back my way, but need to get her to be in a state where she will get out of the way of herself and the decision she has made.

First thoughts:
Well of course you don't, you haven't even scratched the surface yet.

Wow, where did that come from, I thought we were just having some fun and feeling eachother out.

I agree, things are moving too slow. We should just shag - I promise to keep you up screaming all night long.

Okay, maybe not the last one. . .

Or she is just not interested and I should leave it as that.

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hmm you've got yourself into a little pickle here havent you lol..

when in doubt cut her out lol! just cut her away mate... or if you really dont want her out of your life then keep her as a friend to use as a pivot...

but i think its past the point of no return... obviously i dont know the full situation between you two but from what you've said it seems like she's lost interest...

you know how she said "i got your message." by that does she mean that you texted her twice in a row asking her if she got your first message you sent lol? too much interest displayed i think if thats the case...

i probably wouldnt even reply to her lol thats probably because im stuborn... i like your last response best haha but probably wouldnt use it if you want to keep her as a friend haha

sorry i couldnt help anymore mate