Hello fellow PUAs, here is the story.Mid day Friday i opened a HB 9 on my campus. Everything went as planned (i approached, opened, DHVed, we switched venues, built comfort, etc) and i got as far as a kiss close. The transition was easy to make seeing as I gave her one of the necklaces i had on as i kissed her. After our mini daytime date we held hands as she walked me to class. Before we parted we kissed one last time. Both times we kissed i did not get any resistance/ negative feedback from her.

Later that night (Fri night) we have a playful FB chat. The chat demonstrated to me that she was still into me so i didnt pay to much attention to it. This morning (Sat morning) i receive a FB PM from stating the following:

HB9- October 1 at 11:45pm
Hey ... Can I ask you something and you'll be completely honest?

Me- Lightnin MaQueen
Ask away

HB 9- October 2 at 1:56pm
what exactly do you want?

Me- October 2 at 3:14pm
Lol I'm usually not that forward so forgive me if I came off a little too strong on Friday. I'm not looking for a one time thing. I'd like to take you out this coming week, you'll have the time of your life.

HB 9- October 2 at 6:59pm
Wow ok.... Well i really do wish I would have said this in person... But u were just so nice that I didn't want to drive you away ... I mean i would have told you.. if I wouldn't have found myself so attracted to you and 'm really hoping this doesn't make you want to take it back but as of right now I have a boyfriend-ish.. I was totally caught off guard and in perfect timing...and I just feel kind of shitty right now but i do want to keep talking to you... Do you mind much?

Now here is the thing: i dont know where to go from here... I know were to not go (i.e. but love you so much ..... bleh!) but in terms of setting up a day 2 with her im at a loss. i know i cant convince her to chose me over her bf via PM but i know
i can i cat convince her to chose me over her bf on a day 2.

My main question is does anyone have any advice on what i would have to say to get a day two with this girl. All help appreciated! Please and thanks!

She's is attracted to you and was definately in the moment and during that moment her 'BF' was obviously not too on her mind or too important to her at that time.

What you do now that you have that information depends on what you want out of the deal and she came right out and asked you and you laid your cards out on the table to her already.

Since you said you liked her and wanted to take her out on a legitimate date, she is has now exposed herself as a cheater/skand/ho/slut etc etc. The problem is she knows you wanted to date her legitimately so she may tuck her tail up between her legs and play nice girl with you from now on because her ASD is now in overdrive with you. If she fucks you now, you will know that she is a cheating slut and she will know that you are the kind of guy that bangs cheating sluts. The bad news in that is she may have crossed you off the list.

Now when she asked what you wanted, if you had said you wanted to throw her legs over your should and nutsack-slap her in the ass completely on the down-low because you have a GF she may have gone along with it because that would have shown that you are all morally bankrupt as she is. In otherwords right now she feels that she is of lesser moral character than you right now and chicks have a real hard time dealing with that and it makes them real uncomfortable (it puts their ASD into overdrive)

Now then, I have the feeling that did like this gal and did want to date her legitimately and are a bit bummed that she had a nondisclosed BF. If you do like this gal and do think you would be interested in dating her legitimately I would recommend -

1. a bit of a freeze out for being a ho.

2. when your paths do cross again, (it's ok to plan it but make it look like you just happened to bump into each other) play it totally cool and like she is just another woman on the street. Tell her you enjoyed your time together and are bummed that she isn't on the market but then imply that if she becomes available again at some point that maybe you could start over from scratch.

DONT BURN ANY BRIDGES. YOUNG ATTRACTIVE WOMEN OFTEN SERIAL DATE AND SHE WILL LIKELY BE AVAILABLE SOON.

#3. THIS IS IMPORTANT! Walk away from her and go out with and fuck 12 other chicks immediately! Flirt with, hit on and take out as many hot chicks as you can. This will do several things. First off it will keep you from coming down with oneitis. Also, it's fun and good for you and also because it will show Little Miss Hoaround that you aren't waiting for her and that she blew her chance and that if she really isn't into her BF and wants to go out with you instead that she better get on it sooner rather than later.

Thanks here2play. I dig your reasoning (and agree with it) but i used a different approach. The following convo is a continuation of the previously posted:

Lightnin MaQueen October 3 at 1:45am
Awe that’s a shame, it could have been fun. I still wanna meet up with you this coming week, id like to get my necklace back; I hope your still taking care of it, please do it means a lot. Im ganna be busy most of the week. If still wanna meet up im ganna be performing at a local poetry joint this coming Friday as a favor to the owner of Inner look; a lot poets from xxxxx will be there, id like you to come.

HB 9 October 3 at 8:46am Report
Cool ok... and yes I do have it (the necklace) and for Friday yeah i can go.. Where is it?

Lightnin MaQueen October 3 at 5:10pm
It's in the bird art district five minutes away from bird bowl- it's at 4925 xxxx street ct to be exact. I gatta go buy my sis a gift before the show. You should come keep me company, im terrible when it comes to shopping.

HB9 October 3 at 7:42pm Report
Haha... How old is she? and Did u say shopping?! Lol ... Hey btw is the necklace supposed to change color?

Lightnin MaQueen October 3 at 7:53pm
she is turning 29 and yeah it changes color..

HB9 October 3 at 8:14pm Report
Hehe ok I thought I'd like done something tonight when it was all dark blue.. Lol and sure then =)

Lightnin MaQueen October 3 at 8:46pm
awe thats so cute, your trustworthy! Ill let you know what time ill pick you up- probably at 7:00 or 7:30 pm depending on the time im performing, ok?

Hb9 October 3 at 9:39pm Report
Oki =)

I believe i was looking at this whole ordeal all wrong! As much as i would like a AFC for saying this, looking at this 'love triangle' from the HB9s perspective makes all the pieces of the puzzle fall together.Here is what i concluded:

Her and boyfriend-ish friend have know each other for three months and i have only know her for one day (not even; we only hung out a couple of hours). I have only established attraction with my target (A1 to A3) as opposed to her boyfriend-ish friend who has established more comfort then i have (A1 to C1 or so). So my response to this is not to freeze her out; in my eyes, he has not defied me- she only told me she has a bf-ish friend... not a boy friend. By the way the convo began and ended it seems that she does want to see me again (seeing as we just made plans for a day 2) she is merely unsure if she wants to stay loyal to her bf-ish friend seeing as she has established more comfort with him then she has with me.

My solution for destroying this possible bf-ish friend chances is to show her the time of her life this coming day 2: we'll meet up with some of my greatest friends, have a good number of venue changes, and I create a form of time distortion throughout our day two.

Now as for what here2play said, if she were to defy me by canceling our plans, telling me she has official bf, not dressing hot enough for our day 2, etc i would freeze her out in the wink of an eye. It wouldnt feel right making it a just fool around thing or nor would it feel right if I just 'back off'; i feel as if that were to the previously mentioned, it convey low stats seeing as i already am establishing my as a potential suitor. A contradiction like that wouldnt look attractive.

Anymore advice would be greatly appreciated! keep it comin please =)