Basically- a few weeks ago I approached a set and got the facebook info of the target. We've since chatted a bit at college and online. In one conversation we talked about our mutual like of the twilight films. She suggested that we watch one together at my place and then asked if she could stay over. Is this an outright sexual invitation? Also does anyone have any tips about good routines, conversation starters and last minute resistance destroyers ect?
Thanks guys
Dorf

if you do esculate... And she does tend to resist? Or verbally says you guys shouldn't , you should agree with what she says then slowly esculate again or go in for the kill depending on the heat. she should most like disagree on you agreeing.

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Leav'em Better than you found them...

Thanks for the advice- we didn't have sex but we still did a fair amount :p as it turns out she text me today saying "I don't think now is a good time for me to start seeing anyone mostly due to the fact that I'm a lot more interested in girls than guys." :/ oh well, you win some you lose some :p

No, I think you have here an awsome opportunity!!, Yeah, maybe she is more in girls but she doesn´t dislike men. That means YOU.

What I undertand from the text message is that she had a good time with you.

First, I dont think she just came up with that line "she is a lot more interested in girls" just because she is not interested in you (not 100% sure)

Second, She realized, what she almost did with you that night... I think u had a good escalation going on!!!

So what I think you should do is not to change her way of thinking just change it in the short term (in the moment, by micro escalations and building temperature)

Maybe you can have a trisome. =)

I would reply to that message with:

"Yeah me too, I don´nt think its a good time to start seeing us.... (and then insert something that happened that night, something that she will remember.... not sexual, something that you both enjoyed), Just remembered the fight we had with the popcorns!!!! it was just some much fun. OHHHH!!! You wont believe what happened to me today....."


Ok, this will make her take her guard down and you are just a cool guy that understand her preferences and throwing something you both enjoyed will me her remember that exact moment and finishing the text with this, she will for sure text u back ( again not 100% sure she will).


From there you will have to wait after she texted back just to make her think more about that.

Your next text message is for clossing your next meeting.

"yeaaahhh, that was just crazy!!!!, It would take me some time texting it. (and from here you just make your meeting... whtaever)Ohhh.... A friend of mine just called me, she says its going to be an awsome friday party... are you in?

Donno just think on something dont need to be aparty , maybe your are going to cut your hair and u need a new style......


And if you close that meeting from there you will have to escalate really slowly. I think that some NLP will do magic. (How she feels when she is with a girl.?? What she like more about it ???and then just refer it to you and anchor it)


So good luck.


Notneedy

Dammit, I wish I had read this a few days ago. The thing is i already text her back saying "no worries, hope u had fun last night let me know if u ever want to explore..." Probably not the best response but I couldn't think of anything else to say :p We haven't really spoken since.
Btw the threesome thing did cross my mind :p

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