Really need your help guys (long time lurker).

Preface: Kclosed HB8 within 2 minutes at nightclub. Got her number after some deliberation since she apparently doesn't do that; she was really into me.

Called her and set up date at concert venue I was already going to. Originally we were bringing friends but we ended up alone. She texted me "I think we'll be fine ". Met up with her for quick dinner and opened with hug and cheek kiss. Things were going well but started to peter out by the concert venue; we spent 5 hours together in total.

Talked about past relationships, our families and basically interviewing each other as being bf/gf material. She said her parents would love me after I mentioned them jokingly.

Grinded her on the dance floor and though she didn't resist I just had the feeling I was doing it for too long; alternated push-pull but I felt being in the club for so long got awkward--maybe only for me. I moved her around the club and alternated from talking/dancing but something just felt off. I tried going for kiss but she didn't respond to my tests, though she was fine with kino escalation.

By 1am she told me she had to go meet friends at nearby apartment; I escorted her out and tried to go for kclose but could only kiss her goodbye on cheek and lips. Asked 'will I see you again?' and she pauses, looks at me, smiles and says 'text me'. Then she leaves.

I fucked up a few times but I feel the night was more mediocre than terrible. Can I get a day 3? What should I do for the day 3 and when should I call her again? Help would really be appreciated guys.

EDIT: The reason I feel it was a failure was because I was trying to Fclose or get her just as attracted to me as the first time I met her. When I first met her we were both drunk but we had a raw attraction that really got her wanting to see me again. By day 2 that turned into something a little underwhelming. I need to know how to recover from this and I'm not sure if I can invite her to my place yet; I was acting slightly AFC, mostly due to her not wanting to make out with me since she was sober this time. I also am interested in this girl.

Alright, I think you did okay, I´ll mark out the positves and negatives:

Good:
- You gave her a hug and a kiss once you saw her. Excellent, with kiss I hope you mean on the lips, because in that way you affirm that this is not just a normal date, you're picking up from where you left it.
- Venue is great, concerts are great for a date.
- You moved her around the club
- Compliance tests

In short, you do have game, it's just the overall insight that's sometimes missing I think.


Negative:
- 5 hours?! That's suicide, unless it involves the last two hours taking her to your place and going for the F-close. Dates should be brief and intense, otherwise you get into endless talks that are to interview like and deep, and you talked about past relationships... Also you should seem busy, you do not have time to spend 5 hours with a girl
- Major mistake: you started talking about boyfriend girlfriend stuff. That's nonsense man, she's JUST a girl. This is your first date. Even if you say it jokingly, it's a bad idea. Tongue and cheek romance is something else.



Anyway to sum it up, the fact that you didn't get a kiss close at the end when you said goodbye says it all in my opinion. I'm sorry to break it to you but I doubt that she's still interested. Once a girl has made up her mind about you, and she probably already has, she has a kind of picture of you in her mind (not the best one), so it's game over. But don't lose hope, you're doing well. Good luck.

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Damn...I really like this girl too. My initial instinct was that it was over too. However I feel I can recover if I time things just right. Do you (or anyone else) have any ideas on how best to rectify the situation--even though mostly likely it's game over? I still want to try, though I'd like to hear the best option, even if my best chances were say 10%.

i got a similar prob,i didnt fklose but i did give her an orgasm that kinda spoilt the whole trip koz she got loud and we werent alone. She left,just got a hug,no kiss so i thought wtf? and though i like her i think i should just carry on with the next stage...
Though id like to know how to recover cos i feel ive lost. I felt lika total afc and i couldnt understand why.
Should i follow up and get a feel for whats next or give up now koz i feel we've lost the energy.

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No ideas?