My question is how to fix things up? And how can I improve my texts.


Well let’s just start with a little background. I been taking things really slow since I met this girl around October 2009.I been keeping everything steady build rapport well all those steps.

Here is what happened I hanged out with this girl for the 2nd time ever; it started with her texting me:

Hb8- 3:50“Hey do you wanna hang out at arts and jazz fest?”
Me- 3:53 sure m33t u their=)
Hb- 3:54 Awesome cant wait to cya

(I go their on my motorcycle to get some more dhv)

Me-4:17 I am here

(So then she calls me and we go to about a 10-15 minute conversation on trying to find each other after we found each other I negged her cause of that)

I just wanted to chill with her and her friends so basically I just followed around for a change but when I said small stuff like go hear or their we went their so I could keep the alfa role…

About 4 hours later her friends live so its just her ,all the public which was about 50k people, and me. I get in her pants “fingers”. I learned some secret routines by afcAdam but I m not really sure so I wanted to try them out for the longest time to see if they actually worked or not….to be honest I still don’t know if it did or not I have to think it through some more….

About 30 minutes later she is getting picked up by her mom so we meet up with her twin sister and I walk with them until her mom gets near to pick them up…personally I thought it went well but I get this texts back:


Part1: (9:29) My friend showed me ur myspace page I don’t think it is going to work out we are two totally different ppl the things u said on there made me very uncomfo
Part2: (9:29) rtable I don’t think we have anything in common I feel like ur hiding something yet u seem very angry u seem more sexually experienced than me and u are r
Part3: (9:29)ushing it too fast for me sorry id didn’t work out

(I might still have some attraction otherwise she wouldn’t write that long of a message and she also appologised. I think I might have had negged way to hard and well we see the next part)

What should I do from this step now? 3rd date? If so what to do and what not to do