What are some IOI's that you guys have noticed that you feel are strong indicators. I often find the line blurred. Need advice.

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Is she touching or playing with her hair constantly? Look at her eyes, are they glazed over and in a trance state while you are talking to her? Is she sitting close to you, or is she slightly leaned toward you? Those are some pretty noticeable ones, but there are many others too.

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-Any time she hits/touches you. If she didn't want to touch you she wouldn't.

-Frequent if not, constant laughter at your humor.

-Looking directly and strongly into your eyes (doesn't have to be trance, whatever that is anyway).

-Fluttering of the eyelashes while smiling.

-Frequent smiling, you can tell a genuine smile by the minor squinting of someones eyes, no squint, then its a forced smile.

-Mirroring of your posture, or leaning into you.

-Any time she offers to buy you a drink.

-Her phone rings, and she doesn't answer, but instead continues attention on you.

-Any time she asks you to dance.

-Anything more than one compliment, a single compliment is friendly and corteous, beyond that is interest.

-"What's your name?"

-"Oh my god, I love this song....!" (I want you to come dance)

-"This place sucks..." (Can we leave now?)

This is but a few, there are plenty more. You will recognize and be able to gauge them as time passes.

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One thing I've heard before was that for example if you pick up your drink and then she does at the same time shes mimicking you which is good