Hey guys

Alright I'm a really confident guy. Never been a problem for me to just go up to a hot girl and talk her up. For the past 2 weeks I've been back from college and well I don't have any ass back home. So, I've been going to the mall Christmas shopping with friends and such and when I see a girl I like I normally make eye contact and then go say hello.

You guys know the procedure kino escalate, joke, blah blah blah. I 80% of the time get the number and usually a hug or kiss on the cheek when i leave. Usually always get very good IOIs and body language.

Then it comes to getting a day 2 and I fall flat on my face...

The past 2 weeks I've ran into 4 girls that have flaked on me, and only one of the girls actually went on a day 2 with me who I F-closed, but she wasn't all that attractive.

Anyways I have no idea wtf I'm doing wrong and its really starting to eat away at some of my usual confidence.

I usually text after I get there number for a little just playingly the first day. Then call or text a couple days later for a day 2.

Help please
-Alex

Alex,

there are number of things that you may or may not lack during your gaming of the girls. However, according to how you describe it it seems to me that the obvious answer here is that you "call or text her A FEW DAYS LATER". Don't do this. During these "few days", the girl has been approached several times and the risk of that she has reduced interest in YOU has increased.

When you get her phone number, text or call the very same day or the next day and try to come up with a first date. And of course, don't ask her right away "would you like to go out with me?". This gives her no challenge.

But that kind of thing doesn't seem to be a problem to you, it seems.

Good luck,

Zentrode.

Dont ask, tell them.