Will try and sum up the background to this as directly as possible....

So I lived abroad for 5 years in Prague. I went back out there a week ago to see some friends. Met this amazing woman who happens to be a friend of my best friend's girlfriend. We went to a bar/club type place. We made a real connection. Did everything but F. Didn't do that due to it being 6am when the place closed and she had to be somewhere 10am next day.

She is literally an 11/10. 6ft, blonde, stunning figure, beautician who works on celebs, literally a millionaire etc... The full package. Sort of woman every man stares at when she walks down the street.

I'm back out there next month. Planning to move back out there early 2013. I have her contact details and she's keen on me. We're definitely going to have a date. I have a few logistical problems that will mean my usual route of gradually working our way home won't work.

1. I'll have nowhere to take her. I'm staying with my friend who lives with a woman and child. No way I can take a woman back there for sex.

2. I don't know where she lives. If I did I'd set something up nearby so things would naturally progress there. Would be strange to text her asking for these details. Almost like spying or stalking.

3. She doesn't really drink. She works Mon - Fri during normal hours. Prefer to meet her Weds or Thurs (I arrive Tues) so I have the weekend free with my friends if things don't go as planned rather than sacrificing a key night. Usually in the evening after work the most successful date is have a drink somewhere with privacy (like a bar with comfy sofas where it's quite dark) where you can escalate. Probably not an option here due to her preferences.

Really need some suggestions of what to do. I think she wants a relationship rather than casual fun. I'd like a relationship with her too if we click how we did the first time. Due to my time constraints and logistics it could be awkward to fully close. I don't want to leave again having kissing and touched but not fucked. It's not about needing to get laid as I can get that elsewhere. It's more about fucking her so we both realise the situation and can then have that talk before I leave.

There is a possibility otherwise to kiss again and then have a second date as I'm out there for nine days. I however don't want to meet up again somewhere neutral, kissing and repeat the process all over again...

Trying to plan this out with military precision and she's the best one I've met in ages. Would welcome recommendations from you guys if you have any suggestions.

Nobody able to help? I know it's a tough one to answer but any advise would be appreciated.

Can´t really relate to your situation as I´m only 18 but I know how it can be frustrated not to get any advice at all, so I´ll chip in my 2 cents. I almost never F-close at my place because of family so I see your situation.

My advice is that you shouldn't plan this with military precision. It isn´t natrual and she might sense it as neediness (I´m sure a lot of guys acts needy towards her). Just tell her before you get there that you want to catch up. Set up a date at a coffe shop (also offer couches and places to kino). When you´ve done this then set up your next step. Ideally you want this meeting to go well and then go out with her on the weekend togheter with your friends. Then you will either go home to her place or you´ll check in to a hotel. But one step at a time soldier

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Thanks. I think your advice is pretty solid. Re-build the rapport without sex and then arrange a follow up and close. As you say I am kinda in a teenage situation here. Because her friend knows I'm staying with my friend I couldn't get a hotel room as she'd know what I'd done. Guess I'll play it cool, re-escalate and then get a follow-up where I can f close.