When texting, facebooking, etc use it to your full advantage. You have plenty of time to think exactly how you want to relay your messages so you cant mess up as easy like you can in-field. Below is a text transcript from a conversation I had with a girl last night. Notice the different emotions I bring out in her, negs, etc.
You can judge and point out flaws in my style; I'll give reasons for most everything I said so you can come up with your own routines and variations to ellicit these things in your number closes.
Her: How's it goin? -
with this perticular girl 99% of the time she opens me I keep my distance and always keep myself as the prize never chasing her.
Me: You're up late - i
gnored her question make her push thru
Her: yep lol what are you doin?
Me: Reading a book, back in town yet? -
still keeping my input low but starting to open for her
Her: What book are you reading? But nah I'm leaving tomorrow for sure.
Me: The next 100 years. Talks about the good times ahead of this recession and how prosperous we will be and outlines who we will befriend to get there. Nah just stay there its too crowded here anyway. -
Bring out feeling of good, fun, wealth etc in her subconcious. Also shows I have a passion for my major. Followed by a neg
Her: What!?
fine maybe I will except I'm taking summer classes.
Her: Is it college kids or tourists?
Me: It was a joke.. its been dead here. I've still managed to find a good bit to do tho. -
Shows her im a busy guy, finds things to have fun
Her: o lol well thats good! How was that huge party with the dj and all?
Me: A lot of fun you missed out. Did you get to have fun and relax while you were home? -
Bring out more subconcious feelings of relaxation,fun
Her: Yeah I've had a really good time
Me: Probably causing a bunch of trouble and up to no good like always -
Neg
Her: Yeah you know how I roll -
Qualifies herself
Me: Bring your dog back with you. It can come play in my yard. I need a new pet. -
Takes the attention off her coming over its about her dog having fun in my yard.
Her: You have a yard? O man that would be awesome! yeah that would make everything better cuz she has to stay in the apt all day. -
Notice the response
Me: Yah I'm sure she would like that. If you're nice I might let you come over too. -Neg
Her: Psh well if you quit being a jerk face maybe i'll bring her over.
Me: Woah there twinkle toes. If I was being a jerk face it was meant in the most loving way possible. Youre the one doing the name calling. -
Pet names are great also shows alpha qualities I can call her the gayest name I thought of and not be worried about what she will think
Her: Twinkle toes? bahahaha aw your awesome! but yes u were being rude
Me: Forgive me. I'll break out my chef skills to make it up to you. Hows a tv dinner with ice cream for dessert to make it up? -
She expects me to say i'll cook her some nice dinner but i mix it up im not every other guy whos gonna break out a 5 star meal until she qualifys herself worthy.
Her: lol haha tv dinner? You go all out classy dont ya?
Me: We haven't known each other that long. Maybe eventually I can upgrade you to pasta and cheesecake. For now you gotta be content with the simple things like hot pockets and hungry man.
Her:lol haha sounds good
Me:Yeah you aren't picky are you?
I qualify her again
Her: Nope
Me:Oh good we might be able to get along after all.
IOI for accepting my hoop
Her: Maybe...we will see
Me:You're gonna sleep in tomorrow before you head back? It's pretty late.
Her: No I've not been able to sleep lately and I wake up at 12 so idk
Me: You should try to get some sleep then. I'm gonna do that myself..night
Her: Night! Sweet Dreams! -
I wasn't really tired but to keep control over the frame I close her before she has the chance to fall asleep on me or me seem like the one up giving her my precious sleep time.
CHAT