I'm pretty much an AFC but in the past couple of weeks I've been going out and sometimes surprising myself that I can do better than I thought.
Anyway my more of PUA friend invites me to someone's birthday party (turned out to be a fucking SALSA DANCING CLUB!!! and I have 0 idea how to dance), anyway I meet a gorgeous girl and I could tell she was into me, so instead of standing around like a dumbass I made her try to teach me.
Night ends, I get phone # (not in the most ideal way but I got it).
Then she is at a party a few days later which I went to, PUA buddy invited her friend and her there, again doesn't look so great for me, but I figured I had blew it already not making moves when I should have.
I go the party and she is still into me, and I'm thinking WTF am I doing right that she is still interested? So I talked to her for maybe an hour or so trying to be funny, etc, but still being a pussy about making the moves. Anyway she and her friend are going to some other Salsa place later that night and me and my buddy say we will go. My other friend who is also good with the ladies says "hey that girl looks like she is really into you, what the hell are you doing man, you need to get over there and show more interest." I agree and escalate a little, but being a pussy it turned out to be mostly conversation with little kino.
Me and PUA buddy eventually get out there, danced some (well tried to anyways haha) , had too much to drink and I started being kind of an ass again thinking I blew it. When I thought about it the next day, I think I had signs to go in for the kiss but I am too newbie and didn't recognize it at the time. So this time I am almost sure that I blew it. Me, PUA friend, and girl end up driving back to town in my car (yes I had someone else drive). Cleaning out some shit in my car a few days later I found her sunglasses, I recognize them because I made fun of them, hmm ok so she forgot them, everyone has done that.

Then I realized there isn't a good reason why anyone would even have sunglasses out at that time. In what I am thinking is a probably an AFC thought, she might be pulling some game where she left them so I would call back. So I can either call and hold them ransom for dinner or something, or I could just walk in wearing them next time I see her.

I was able to recognize alot of amateur shit I pulled during all this, so at the very least I learned something, just wondering if this is some trick to get a guy to call that has ever been pulled on any of you guys?

Call her about another meeting.
Escalate and close.

How many more signs do you need?

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when a girl leaves something in your house/car, its an excuse to see you again. trust me.

- Memento

Seems like you've seen her already a few times. Game her! As far as women leaving things in a car, yes it can be an excuse, most of the time it is. But be aware that people now a days where shades at night because its..."in".....but hold them for ransom, and if that doesn't work, whenever you see her again, game her then.



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So I pulled the ransom shit, didn't work, bla bla bla, but the funniest shit happened. I go to a bar in my small town, and there is a hot bartender that usually works there, but this time she isn't working and just drinking some. I talk to her casually and she starts hitting on me, she even bit my arm at one point haha! I get her to go back to my friends house and I try to game a little and find out she has 2 kids (I try not to think about it but wtf man). Some more biting ensues, I kissed a few times, but all short and not the make out. Then she said she had to go, I got her to go to my apartment, and it was like 3:30 or 4am. Having never done this shit I didn't know what to do, I never read that far because I figured I gotta work on other shit first. Somehow got her dancing to the shit on the radio, and what a nice ass, I actually did alot of kino here. She started dancing on me almost lap dance style and I go for taking the shirt off but nooooooooo. Eventually it was pretty late, like almost 5am, and she was saying she has to go, and eventually did. She wrote her number down, kissed (again not make out but fucking bit my lip pretty hard). Man I really wanted some, oh well, I don't want to go on a date with her so I doubt I'll call but there may still be hope some in an other way. I just don't understand how I pull this shit off consistently, I do try cocky/funny, but thats about it. I keep getting myself into good situations somehow but messing up because I don't know what to do at that point.

don't be so hard on yourself i think your thinking to much when your sarging, if you have the idea of defeat in your head then chances are thats whats going to happen

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This may be an old post, but since it has already been bumped I'll agree to this...

A girl once left her G-string and shampoo at my apt after spending the night. I really didn't care if I saw her again or not, but I figured I would since it was my roommate's gf's friend. I told her she left her shit here, and she came back the next week to get it and spent the night again. It definitely means she wants to see you again. She also left her Halloween costume this year (the previous time was last year), but this time she only stopped by to get it. She lives with her "ex"boyfriend so I don't feel like messing with that.

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I don't have an ego, I just love how awesome I am.

Hey yea if you read some freud thats what i do hypnosis and psychology anwho do you know what a freudian slip is? well its where you want something and say it like instead of saying so tonight were r we going you say sex tonight, anyway this also works with items for subcounsciously she knows that she is forgetting her glasses, unless she was fucked then logic goes out the window but if you were getting the ioi s then you should have been in there like jam in bread. Build the kino do the whole triangle gaze thing left eye right eye lips. thats where you look in this order at those places it builds tension and puts it within her mind that she wants to kiss you. Its sweet. As for the lady man 2 kids goes back to yours and you just danced. dude? Go in for a kiss watch some lesbian movies first they really know how to kiss and they can teach you a lot even about how you should move your arms and slide them over her whilst kissing and how you can make women really wet by not touching any sweet zones. A good kiss can really get you laid of course its only a start but i have been practising and after kissing a girl shes mine.

Its the cKc in my book. ( i dont really have a book)
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Verbatim, I can fully identify with having more success than you previously realized. I have caught myself thinking the same thing. Some people are just "naturals" at the game. I consider myself a natural because I have had great success with women before I even discovered the game. I'm not bragging, because I have had more than my share of failures as well. It's been hard learning from the botched sets at times which is where I come into forums or go back to my books to see what I did wrong and what to do right the next time it comes up.

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yeh, you drop them off home after a nice meal, they ring you up the next day, 'i left my underwear in your car'. weird......

Sometimes yes, but not always. I once had a girl leave a nice leather jacket in my car. I told her I had it but she never bothered coming back for it. It was brand new, so I gave it to another girl I was sleeping with. It was a decent ending to the incident but it goes to show you that a chick leaving something is not always an excuse to see you again, she could have just forgot it.

Ok, first off, for kino dancing, especially Salsa, is great. You can put your hands all over her (with in reason) and pull her close and do all kinds of stuff to create sexual tension and to prove your worth. So I do suggest learning how to dance to every guy out there.

For that girl you got back to your place, when she was giving you a lap dance you should have shown a little disinterest. For instance if she's trying to look all sexy and keeping eye contact and a bunch of stuff like that, maybe throw in a yawn like she's boring you. This will make her escalate and maybe take off her shirt for you.

This one time I had a party in high school at my parents house and this chick I hooked up with "forgot" her daiquiri mix (a whole bottle) and the next school day she came up and said "Oh, I forgot my daiquiri mix at your place can I come over after school and pick it up?"

I didn't really like her so I said I noticed she left it and I "poured it down the drain... yes all of it."

if she didn't want to see you again, she would have made sure she didn't leave anything in your car. my point is: she didn't not want to see you again, so she wanted to.

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set up another meeting, throw some game and close that, it is that obvious!!!