| Dude we need some more details maybe... What in the hell happened on your first night other than she is attracted to you? How far exactly did you take it? What routines, if any, did you pull.. What LEVEL is she on?
Pretty much all I can say is just keep doing what you are doing, but dont forget to be yourself while you are at it as well. If you are new, you will quickly run out of material or get into things that arent internalized, and thats a bad zone to be in if you both arent comfortable with your own personality, so dont outgame yourself on this one.
Going out on a limb here, I would guess that you got into A3 and probably into C1, so reverse it a couple steps and just start over from the beginning, breezing quickly up and escalating if it goes well. In other words, be cocky funny and get her to start qualifying herself to you (A2) again, but with lots of humor. Then move on from there. Hopefully you should very quickly get back into C1 where you are just comfortable with eachother, then you can try some of the rapport building routines, like "the cube," or "the 4 questions game" which is the one from psychology were you have her describe a color, an animal, a body of water, and how she would feel in a closed white room. That or just talk about what you have in common, which is what normal people do anyhow at this stage. =P
As for Kino, DEFINITELY use kino and right off the beginning. When you meet her, give her a nice hug and kiss her cheek right under her ear. Dont be afraid to grab her by the waist or to take her hand momentarily. Put your hand on her leg briefly and then take it away! Try to play thumbwar and various other kino tricks with her (check the boards), escalate escalate escalate, until you can do the trust game or something like it and you will know then if she is ready to kiss you.
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