I ve met this girl like five days ago in a club. I had seen her before and I liked her and I knew she liked me so when I saw her in the club I immediately went for it even though I was kinda drunk. Because of me being drunk I didnt game correctly (if I gamed at all) and dont really remember anything she told me but her name. Finally I got her #.
I texted her the following day something like
"hope u didnt do me anything naughty cause i was drunk"
(cant really translate exactly) and asked what she was gonna do this night. She replied instantly saying
"No i didnt hurt u and Im waiting for a friend and we'll see what we will do."
Then I texted back that
" Im going to x club ,lets get together."
but she didnt respond.So now I wanna text her something that she will respond but since I dont know anything about her I cant think of something. Also I think canned stuff like "Do u know what happened to me the other day?" will fail. Sorry for field report.Need some help guys :)

that just seems to be a little strong, especially since you dont know what happened the previous night. I also think you are supposed to wait 2 days before calling or texting someone after you get their number. If I were you next time you go clubbing just text her saying "you need to come to club x right now. Its crazy..." see if she responds to that...

thnx for responding. yeah I see your point. Problem is right now Im far far away from there and that's why I wanted to keep a text game going until I get back. I 've read a really nice post with canned text material and there are some that I like and could use but I dont really know what I should do now, I mean should I try to DHV,build comfort or to NEG her so that Im sure she responds?

Ok so today I decided to text her

"I just saw something that reminded me of you"
After 20mins she replies

"how are u?I am at x (different city than me).What did u saw?"
So i text her after 15or so mins

"I was at x till sat.I dont know If I can tell u.It's kinda funny and u might take it wrong.I dont even know you"

Instantly she responds

"It's ok.tell me"

After 10mins or so I text back

"I ll tell u later:) At some time I want u to remind me what we said that night cause I missed a few parts"

and I didnt got a response.

What I understand from that is that she isnt really interested in me or she can get real bitchy.After all isnt this the whole point of pua;to make girls want u? The point is I want this girl so pls help me. I would really like to see an expert's view on my case.

Game lots of girls! Let me guess... this is the only one you're talking to right now, huh?

The more girls you talk to the less time you will spend on each one... increasing the chance that a few of them will begin to chase you if you maintain a good frame.

You skipped rapport building and went straight in for the kill.

Next time make fun of her first and text a few days at least before you plan a meet up.

Good luck,

-Slayer

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yeh u are right. But even If I gamed more girls now it wouldnt make me like her less.. Should I let her understand that I really want her? Do u think I should quit it or continue chasing her? Right now Im thinking on deleting her.
Also what part of my game was wrong and what could I do better next time?

Ye gotta pre-heat the oven before you stick in the turkey..Remember!
* No, don't tell her you really want her, you may want her but you don't need her.
* Stop chasing her, you don't need her.
* You can delete her number, forget about it and move on. However I'd leave the dust settle for near enough a week and try again but going through the correct producer and don't go for the kill, you need to rapport.
* You didn't build comfort, attraction and you didn't make her laugh. Basically you skipped too many stages and went for the kill. Don't come across needy and desperate as remember you do not need her.

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ok I see your point. Text game seems the most difficult and less fun for me cause I cant read the real reaction like body language. Do you think that my text was weak? How should I have text gamed given that I didnt gamed right the night I met her? I quit on her but Im asking for next time. At least I have learned something

Ok, so you might sound needy by txting her. You should game a few girls at once to keep your mind occupied by not thinking of one girl. Call her whenever you can because your voice is one of your most powerful weapon, AND when you say something it can be taken wrongly and misjudged. You never go for an HB10 when your drunk because she might get the wrong impression. 1st impressions are lasting ones, and are hard to change.

this is my fav txt starter:

i was leading all the sexy girls to my house 2nite, im luring them with their favorite candy, what's yours?

it starts conversation. if she dsn't txt you back dn't txt her back that same day dude because she is busy or doesn't want to tlk. if she wnts to talk tat day she will txt you.

any other q's?

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thx to all ppl for replying. I guess I should have a solid game at day 1 and then it would be easier. Or I should call instead of texting the first days but she might even not answer it because she might not feel comfotable enough to talk to me on the phone.Anyway I quit on her unless I run into her at some club or smthn.. end of thread (at least for now)

well in my opinion ya came on a lil too strong, u opened it great with the whole hope ya didn't do anything to me text. but then asked what she was doing tonight. Remember what she's doing tonight isn't important to a busy man such as yourself lol. But that was okay until ya asked her to meet her up. Instead ya could've asked for an opinion with something like "i've got like 4 different people asking me to do stuff tonight, which would u think would be the most fun? then make up 4 scenarios, that kinda cover all different types of stuff. This will do two things, one presents DHV because so many people are wanting you around. Also gives her the chance to choose and you can then play off the answer she gives, ex: she says best option is to go out get drunk and dance, then you neg her for being an alchy lol, and go from there and chances are if you game it right she may even end up meeting up with you.

No offense but I never lie at any part of my game.If I was to come up with scenarios I could have the girl from the first night. After all I told her I was with friends Im not weirdo who goes out alone.. I got out that night and had fun with my friends. Anyway if she plays hard to get it's her loss. I aint become different from who I am for a girl.I become better for me firstly and then for others.

for me i always experience these two things

either i like them and they don't like me back, or i dont like them and they like me back

and sometimes i dont like them and they like me then it slowly switches to where i like them and they dont like me haha...its frustrating
(vice versa applies)

so what i have been trying lately is to try my best to act the way i would if i didn't like the girl

if you do A to the girls you do like and they end up not liking you......and you do B to the girls you don't like and they end up liking you, then do B to the girls you like


last thing.....never tell a girl you like them early on! never works out....unless some rare circumstance

yeah aamk04. I have lived the exact same situation many times. I dont know I guess I ll always stuck to what I cant get (or at least cant get easily) and forget girls who are into me and being so nice to me. I dont know why this happens but it does. I guess sometimes girls feel the same way too.
yeah I dont really remember but I think I did that. Too much booze mate..

personally i think it was the fact that you said you were gonna tell her something and made it seem like that was the whole reason you were texting her then basically said now im not gonna tell you...sometimes its ok to do something like that but i think this wasnt the right time or way to say it...and i think thats why she didnt respond after that and not after somethin else...but i always have trouble with texts i always manage to go to far...i know most of the things i say in txts are exactly what i would say in person and it would work but because they cant see my body language (i.e. smile, smirk, grin whatever) to know that im joking it just comes across as too much